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Date a soulmate from Stockton, United States. Sorry for the last profile ad. If you're willing I'll leave out the sarcasm...just kidding.
I don't know how many ways to say it but I'm not the stereotypical guy you'd meet. Take what you will from the pictures but no book's cover is ever as interesting as the pages beneath. I'll try to divulge a few personality traits that might help:
I'm neither purely cynical nor purely optimistic (who really is?). When people say the glass is either half full or half empty I do get the point. I'm simply more pragmatic and more of a nerd about these things. The glass is really both depending on what you need at the time. You need taxi fare and only have half of it, well, that will get you half way--makes for a "silver lining" of sorts. Don't have it for an airplane flight? They won't let you on the plane and drop you off half way with a parachute. Make sense?
People are always surprised I never got married. I always tell them I didn't get married because I didn't feel like getting divorced. Is that being too pragmatic? Oh, but people tell me lately that humans aren't really meant to be monogamists. And those are usually the people who got divorced...
I was recently told I was a serial dater by a lady I had just asked out for a date. Which meant that she probably wasn't going to go out on a date with me. Later on she said she would probably have to start serial dating herself in order not to be single. What's the point of mentioning this? I really don't know...see if you can guess.
If the majority of people have 100 hundred deal breakers or red flags for potential suitors, I must only have 5. It's just that those five can be the most difficult to have. Here they are:
1. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. (No, I'm not a Christian.)
2. Live and let live. (Better than Paul McCartney's "Live and Let Die." I work in the medical field, ok? I'd vote libertarian, if they had anyone to vote for.)
3. If you are going to hold someone else to a standard be sure you can hold yourself to it first. More simply, don't be a hypocrite.
4. Being honest sucks. Being honest with yourself is even harder. (To thine own self, be true...as an alternate.)
5. Being nice sucks too. I'm both honest and nice...most people can't wait to take advantage of that. Just stamp sucker on your forehead. And, as we've all heard, nice guys do finish last. Which will truly encapsulate my personality if you're willing to continue reading further.
It's just that I'm not going to write it all out for anyone that isn't too, too interested--or happens to be illiterate. Let me know if you are...interested, I mean, not illiterate.

Meet a man from Stockton, United States. Hi my names Michael and im here to find my best friend and soulmate if it's possible i think we all take that notion for granted because in every relationship we should be expected to put in some work and or effort to appreciate the person were with and understand there is nothing perfect. I'm seriously looking for my best friend so that means don't be shy the worst that could happen is i'll buy you a starbucks for 15 min. of your time, or we can take our time emailing and not be in a hurry and then maybe go out on a real date. i'm abig fan of festivals jus following my lady around anywhere so that i can have my moments and take my small glances at her. i enjoy holding hands and i am very affectionate when i'm with somebody i really like to have s strong connection i am very passionate and do not like jumping around from one relationship to another so i am selective .i think this is kinda outta character for me to explain who i am in a few short words im complicated yet i try not to over complicate things i look inward to find happiness and also share in my happiness and rely on my partner for the same. i like concerts alternative music dancing traveling just living life as well as working hard so when im old i wont have too thats my big plan and i appreciate someone else who has a plan i dont care for loose ends so still married im not interested..thanks for reading hope to meet someone god bless and happy hunting

Date single man from Stockton, United States. I'm looking for someone with similar interest, good conversation, confident with who they are. Someone who loves pets, reading books, and watching movies. Most importantly that they have respect for others as well as for themselves.

Meet people from Stockton, United States. I am a father of 2 great sons 14,12 they are the love of my life.Would like to meet a ladie that knows what she wants, does not play games and is ready for some great times!!have a nice day wink or blink lol

Date someone special from Stockton, United States. I have blk hair.,i am average or(slender)i am light complected i am easy going and plesant to be with but i dnt date mch. I also like average and thick girls. I enjoy blonds brunets and redheadsa good sence of humor would b nice. I also enjoy the great outdoors,camping the beach,concerts and playing in a good rock band !

Meet men and women from Stockton, United States. Some to lagh talk walk hold hands and cuddle wine tasting moves hanging out by our selves or with friends family . Winter nights at home waching a movie with a fire. Sunday football at home or at a buddy's and watching the raiders play at home. Mexican, chimera, pizza. Are my faverts. Coaching my son in baseball basketball.waching my doughter play softball .

Date a soulmate from United States. well...im a positive and happy person...and i want to be around positive and happy people. i am loyal , honest and very passionate with my partner.... and with the things that i love to do. i work hard so that i can play hard, i am empathetic to others, but dont mistake kindness for weakness:-) i try to live my life life true to heart ....focusing on the aspects of life that will bring true happiness...... im looking for a girl that i can laugh with... smile with.... and be sexy with on the dance floor.....i love to have fun!!

Meet a woman from United States. I love my family. I like to have a good time. I enjoy cooking and entertaining at my home, especially on the holidays.. Im new to the social scene. Outgoing, friendly , enjoys good conversations with respectful mature people. Just testing the waters looking for good company...I have good family and friends and I love them dearly.....my friends would describe me good company, funny, always fun to be around...what Im most proud of are my children that I've raised, how proud Iam of them..and my beautiful grandchildren.....I would like a easygoing nice respectful man...that likes the same interest..and injoys a gud time

Date someone special from United States. A Nurse and definitely single for more than 4 years now. Meeting the '' RIGHT MAN '' has been somewhat challenging for me. I guess I'm seeking the ''PROVERBIAL ENTIRE PACKAGE '' Looks, Brains, Profession, Infinity, Maturity, Morals, Kindness, Compassionate, Disposition, Pleasant, Heart Ethics hehehe I'm just kidding. I knew nobody is Perfect ! But at least... Someone who possesses half of those qualities that's fine with me hehe ! Because I am a person that If I love someone I am willing to love all his Imperfections. Isn't that Awesome ?
And one thing for sure I'm looking for a husband not just a boyfriend or sex. I've been single and searching for more than 4 years now because this time I wanted to be worth it. And divorce is not my option anymore. I've been divorce once, no more second time please... I may be picky/ selective but I just want the '' BEST MAN '' for me and for my son because I knew I deserved it because I was born with a '' GOLDEN HEART '' you can see it for yourself. I am okey with dating to know you... and if you fits my taste you are lucky ! Thanks

Meet people from United States. People would ask me when I was little "what do you wanna be when you grow up? " my answer was always the same. " a Wife and a Mommy. " well the wife part didn't work out, but I must say I'm a really good mommy! 2 of my 3 did a horrible thing and grew up!! Lol! So now I'm left with only 1 in the nest :( And curious 2 know what life has next 4 me :D

Date men and women from Alabama, United States. Looking for someone who can make me laugh, be sensitive, has a can do attitude, nice to talk to and one who does not himself so serious. I am just looking for someone who wants to have fun, free spirited, will to enjoy casual dating. Willing to just go with the flow not so uptight. Willing to enjoy simple and activities such going to the movies, casual lunch or dinners and coffee at a cool coffee house. Listen to music, art galleries and museums. picnic in the park, feed the ducks, bike ride or walk. Just ask me I am always for trying something new!!!!!! I am pretty flexible no frills womanl at heart. I am just a down to earth woman looking for fun.

Meet a soulmate from Alabama, United States. i am a good friend and i think i make a great girlfriend. my perfect match is funny, romantic and spontaneous, and though he has a serious side also knows how to have fun. i am sure and confident and would like my match to be the same.

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