Date men from United States / Alabama / Spanish Fort, 47 year old

Date someone special from Spanish Fort, United States. I like someone who is down to earth. A professional who can be sexy. Aperson who likes to listen and is not selfish. I like someone who is secure with theirselves. I like someone who enjoys the outdoors, but loves quiet time when it is raining.

Meet a man from Spanish Fort, United States. Like to enjoy the many things in life. Looking to find someone to have fun with but not looking for a wild child. Needing someone more relaxed in their age. Kids are part of my life and I'm all about family.

Date a soulmate from Spanish Fort, United States. New to the East Bay Area.....
I'm a fairly resent widower, who watched his love of 26 years, slowly die of cancer. The experience has taught me to want the most, out of the time that I have left.
I have 6 children; all but one, are on their own now. That just leave me and my 16 year old daughter at home.
I'm an IT consultant that specializes in manufacturing information. I lived in New England and traveled the world, for most of my career. But, being a single parent now, I've taken a position at a local manufacturer, so I can be home ever night, for my daughter.
I enjoy the beach, traveling, and cycling (yes, I'm the nerd with a computer/GPS on my bike).
I’ve always been the guy that other guys hate; because their wives and girlfriends say, why can’t you be more like him. The advice that I give to my sons (which took me a long time to learn) is; “You don’t always need to fix her problems, when she's having a bad day. Just be there to listen. Sometimes holding her in your arm and saying nothing, is worth more than anything that you can say or do”.
It's been a year and a half since my wife passed. My daughters told me, the other day, that I need to get on with my life. So, I figured that I would give this a try.
After being on here for one day, I had to add the following (sorry it sounds so callous).
For those "real" women who are serious; you can stop reading here.
For the women and men (posting as women) looking for money; I'm not giving you any. So, move on to the next old schmuck and don't bother contacting me. :-|