Date women from United States / Alabama / Orange Beach, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. Hmmm, who am I and what am I looking for? First and foremost, a real man, no more flakes PLEASE! OK, I am a pretty happy person, don't let that opening line fool you. I am learning the longer I am on here the more I find out what I do not want, and that's scary. My friends describe me as laid back, outgoing, silly, and optimistic.I adapt pretty easily in new situations I work in the hotel industry, but my true passion is film making (acting). I have been blessed with the opportunity to work on quite a few feature films. Unfortunately my full time job at the hotel limits my ability to do as much film work as I would like to. I love the water, and really enjoy fishing and boating. I am looking for someone who is stable in their career and has a great sense of humor, and doesn't mind the fact that I work odd hours. I don't have children, but I don't mind if you do. I enjoy dining out and trying new places. I am not a huge fan of hanging out in bars, once in awhile is alright, but not something I like to do every weekend. This is not my first attempt here on match, but I'm hoping it's my last. I have met some great guys here, but just haven't found the right one for me. That being said, I have had a couple of not so nice experiences as well, so I may have to wear my temporary shield until I get to know you enough to know that your intentions are good. What I have learned is we may have the world in common on paper, but that doesn't mean we are going to "connect" in person. It's OK if we meet, and we don't click. It happens.You will not hurt my feelings if after 30 minutes of awkwardness you decide I am not who you are looking for. I'd rather us just end it there, shake hands, and be glad we gave it a try. I can't stand head games, and I have a pretty good B.S, detector, so if you are full of cheesy lines I don't want to hear them. If you think I look nice, please say so. If you think I look like hell, you can tell me that too, but I probably already know if I do, LOL. It's really important to me that you be yourself from the start. Yes, I realize that there will sometime be nervousness and anxiety that can make people act strange in these situations, and I can deal with that. What's wrong with admitting those things? We are all human and far from perfect, flaws are what makes us who we are, and I am a fan of embracing that notion. I love to laugh at myself when I do something stupid, and hopefully you do too. I am kind of clumsy, tend to trip over my own feet at times, and am hoping to find someone who will catch me when I do :) UPDATE...I have gotten several emails asking if I live in NOLA or Orange Beach. I live and work fulltime in Orange Beach...well I work at a resort in Gulf Shores.

Meet a woman from Alabama, United States. People describe me as a "Free spirit" with an upbeat personality. I try to keep things on a positive note. I enjoy getting to know people and explore new places.
I enjoy watching sports, you just can't beat football season!!! I love boating, fishing, and anything to do with water and nature. I like music of all types, I think it's good therapy for the soul.
I am very outgoing and know what I want in life. I'm not into drama, sometimes I just don't see how people live that way. I am looking for a guy to go out and have fun with, then just see where it goes. You can't have too many friends in this crazy world we live in.
I believe that life is what you make it. After all, Laughter IS the best medicine!!
I enjoy hanging out with friends and spending time with family. Life's too short NOT to enjoy it to the fullest.

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