Date women from United States / Alabama / Vestavia Hills, 39 year old

Date a woman from United States. I enjoy getting together with friends and cooking out but also like relaxing at home. I like watching basketball, lacrosse, baseball, football, really all sports! I like movies or doing anything outside. I workout during the week to stay in shape.
I have 2 children - 1 lives at home. My son is a Marine (heading to bootcamp soon) and I have daughter that will be a senior in HS this August. She plays basketball and lacrosse so I spend a lot of time watching her play.
I am looking for someone I can enjoy spending time with.

Meet someone special from United States. My headline is a play on words from a movie... do you know which one? Let me know if you do!
I've always been a people person... my friends mostly know me as the social butterfly. I get along with most people and have always had large groups of friends, although I'm just as happy just hanging out with one or two close pals. I'm a good listener, can be objective, but have the tendency to get (just a little) loud when I'm talking about something that excites me, oops. Other than that, I'm a go with the flow type person. This has helped me to be more relaxed over the years but unfortunately has helped me to become a very "last minute" person as well. Like my headline says, we're not perfect! Haha. Oh, and I'm pretty open minded and flexible- I'm willing to try most new things whether it's food, movies, vacation destinations, or activities. However, I'm not quite convinced I ever want to do bungee jumping.... but I'll watch you do it!
I have one son that is my world, of course, and couldn't imagine life any other way. I think he teaches me about life sometimes just as much as I have taught him. My other closest family members (my parents) live almost three hours away but we still maintain closeness. I'm an only child, but my cousins, aunts, and uncles are all very important to me and I always feel most at home when I'm around them. I deeply hope to meet the kind of man that holds friends and family as dear as I do.
I want to meet someone who is strong with his morals and values. I want to meet someone who will defend what he believes is right. Intelligence is very attractive! Humor will get you a long way- and if you are a movie buff and a book buff- that's a definite turn on!! I would like to meet a strong Christian that is comfortable discussing his faith. In the physical sense, I always notice teeth and eyes first!! Looks are important, but not the most important. It doesn't matter about meeting guys that don't have children,however they must be understanding that I am a Mom first.
Soooo.... shoot me an email. I'm ready to meet. Being single has had it's perks, but I don't want to make a lifetime career of it. Impress me. I'm looking for the guy that will look into my eyes and truly see my soul. To strengthen the connection that I know is there right from that instant that he does. Hopefully I'm not dreaming.