Date women from United States / Alabama / Jackson, 40 year old

Date a woman from United States. I was named after a song and music has always been a huge part of my life. Since I was a little girl music has had the power to make me feel happy or sad. I am sentimental and naive in a lot of ways. I still believe in true love even though I haven't found it yet. I am holding out for that one that was meant for me. We will know it when we meet.
I put a lot of time and effort into my fitness and I would like my partner to be like-minded. I would really like to meet someone who can challenge me, (or at least keep up with me!) in the area of fitness and stamina. I like doing things like playing frisbee, climbing Stone Mountain, hiking, boating and swimming and I love to cook (and eat)! Sometimes I think I work out just so I can afford to eat what I want. Lol
I'm a dedicated mom with two girls at home who lives with his father. I have a successfully career that I love in the field of tech support. I have supported myself and my children for the past 5 years so I am fiercely independent. But some part of me would like to have a partner to share life with.
Honestly, I am not looking to go on 1000 dates and be taken to dinner and dancing. I would rather have 1 date with someone that I can connect with and can be myself with.

Meet someone special from United States. Looking for someone to laugh and spend time with. I am not into drama. At 15 and 11 my kids give me all the drama I can stand. I do not require wining and dining but do want someone who can take care of himself. Interested in someone who will give back what I give.