Date women from United States / Alabama / McCalla, 40 year old

Date someone special from McCalla, United States. I love to have fun and what you see is what you get! I am brutally honest and hate fake people. My friends would probably describe me as, funny, crazy, very sassy, a fashionista and unpredicable because you never know what might pop out of my mouth. I do tend to talk like a sailor, so beware, but I also know how to act like a lady. People tell me that I am a spit fire! I know this is horrible, but the thing that makes me laugh the most is when someone falls down! I was laughing as I typed that! I love to go out, but I also like to stay home and take it easy. I am a hard worker and if I want something, I will work 2 or 3 jobs to get it. Shopping and sleeping are 2 of my favorite things. My friends, family and dogs mean so much to me and I love spending time with them. I have 3 nieces and 1 great niece that are pretty much like my kids. I love to hang out with them. I love to travel and I love to hop in the car and just drive. I'm looking for someone that knows how to have fun, but that can also be serious at times. I want a man that knows how to communicate. I need someone to help keep me grounded. I tend to "fly by the seat of my pants." I am very strong willed and some say I'm intimidating because I don't hold anything back (must be a short person thing). I need a man that will stand up to me and challenge me. 2 things I will not tolerate, lying or cheating. Tell the truth, deal with the consequences, move on. When I am dating someone, I always try to put myself in their shoes before I make any kind of decisions. I think to myself, if you did that, would it bother me? If the answer is yes, then I don't do it. I guess that's called respect, and that is extremely important to me. I want an honest, faithful, trusting, hard working, and God fearing man. I think friendship is very important in a relationship. I would love my significant other to become my best friend. I want us to love to be with one another, but still have our own lives. I will never give up my friends or family for a relationship, and I would never expect my partner to either.