Date women from United States / Alabama / Arab, 40 year old

Date someone special from Arab, United States. I am very honest , and kinda blunt :). I am a strong woman and I would love to meet a similar man. I haven't dated much, but I do like meeting new people. I've been divorced a year and a half and i'm ready to move on... (NO PLAYERS NEED APPLY!!!) haha ...I love to laugh and just hang out.
When I first made this profile name , I WAS very busy. (that was 8ish months ago and I was too chicken to continue). I just figured out how to change my name. :) So for now "not so busy girl".
I think i'm a confident,funny, friendly, and loving person. I love to hang with friends, go out , or just do nothin and watch TV. I am the mother of 2 GREAT kids! One is married, and the other is never home, so pretty much grown. I have a 1 yr old grandson (who i am SURE " HUNG THE MOON") !! I am a christian but not religous at all.
I am looking for a CONFIDENT man (not arrogant), with a great smile and pretty teeth. I love a good sense of humor! It would be nice if your kids where grown( but not a deal breaker). If you work all the time, thats not good for me. :)
I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, but i'm not in a hurry. I would want to meet for coffee first and check you out .HAHA.. (NO AXE MURDERERS NEED APPLY!!!) see i'm funny, hehehe... I think a very romantic date would be for you to plan a picnic somewhere beautiful. :)
p.s. I smoke about 4 times a year or less...( that honesty thing won't let me put non-smoker) :)