Date women from United States / Alabama / Daphne, 40 year old

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I am a very selective Asian woman who was raised and educated in the United States. I have a great career in the aerospace industry as an engineer. Basically, I analyze the strength of things on the airplane, and I get to tell other engineers what to do and how to do it. I've rated my body type as average although I wear clothes size 2/3/4 which could be considered slender if I were taller... LOL.
My personality is difficult to describe. However, my friends and colleagues can describe me as warm, serious and yet funny, intelligent and yet very practical, direct and yet sensitive, adventurous and yet cautious, etc. In general, I am very affectionate but there is a certain time of the month when it's better to give me space... or else the mean person in me will come out. I am also a workaholic (according to my boss at work: "even if you had 10 husbands to support you financially, I know you will never quit working"). I get also very impatient with people who lack common sense and logic. I am certainly not perfect!
My ideal match would be a man who appreciates a woman who has a strong mind, while at the same time he also accepts my vulnerability. He has to be confident of himself but not competitive with me. I am looking for friendship that can develop into an exclusive long term loving relationship. My man will never have to worry about money matters with me. I can write more later, or you may ask me any question.
I'm 46, and my pics are current (otherwise, the date is stated in the caption). I artificially set my profile age as being younger because Match otherwise matches me with really old-looking men. I prefer younger men.
Regarding IM (instant messaging), it doesn't seem to work on my iPad. To those who tried to IM me, I'm sorry... Actually, I take that back. I'm not sorry. Men who still try to IM me are idiots who don't take time to read this.
Disclaimer: If/whenever I spelled something incorrectly, I'd blame it on the iCrap ;-)

Meet a woman from Alabama, United States. I am an outgoing person who loves to laugh. I have a huge heart and love helping others. I try to stay healthy and take care of myself. I work out several times a week. It would be nice to have someone who also works out and tries to stay in shape or at least is supportive of my doing it. I enjoy spending time at the beach and around the water. I am looking for a man who shares my Christian values, someone who puts God and his other close relationships first in his life. I would like to find someone who wants to go to church with me. I realize that some people have this misconception that being a Christian means that you can't still be sexy and know how to have fun and that just isn't true! I am looking for someone who also knows how to have a mature, honest relationship. I would like to emphasize "honest". I am also looking for someone who understands that to have a functioning relationship, you cannot just focus on your own needs and wants as a relationship is all about give and take. I am a very giving person, but it is nice when its appreciated and reciprocated. I have learned a lot from all of my experiences in life the good and bad. I have my priorities straight and am willing to give my all to the right relationship and want someone who is willing to do the same, I have noticed that a lot of guys say on their profiles that they are looking for a "relatlionship", but then go on to say that they have little time for "dating". A good relationship takes a lot of time and work. So, I guess I am confused at how they have time for a relationship if they barely have time to date. We are all busy, but I am willing to make my relationship a priority and want someone who feels the same.

Date someone special from Alabama, United States. I am an independent woman who likes making her own money and I have a large zest for life. I want someone who can make me laugh, forgive my mistakes, and be there when the chips are down. I believe that laughter is the best medicine and life should be fun...

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