Date men from United States / Colorado / Denver, 40 year old - page 16
Date someone special from United States. Words to describe me. Hmmmm. What to write? I can just hear friends saying “Don’t say that; you’ll seem arrogant!” or “Don’t write that or you’ll sound desperate.”. Maybe I can try describing myself with shapes? Or interpretive dance? Let’s try words. What would you like to know? I’m a fairly intelligent human with basic motor skills and manners. I love to cook. As long as the ingredients are water combined with something in a packet. Kidding. I spent a long time in kitchens learning enough to not be a chef though can kill it for dinner-and-a-movie nights or dinner parties. I’m very active. Running, going to the gym, playing hockey, snowboarding, crocheting plant holders, you name it. I really enjoy learning. Like learning a new skill, cool facts, discovering new aspects within my relationships or within myself. Overall learning. I’m a student of life. Let’s see. I like being that guy that friends come to for advice or just talking through issues in their lives. I love my friends. Just have to learn to listen to my own advice. I also write and am house broken. I’m addicted to Pandora, love the arts, and am relatively well read. I’m positive, confident, driven, thoughtful, funny, direct and affectionate. I’m a romantic at heart. I love my sports and can talk at length about it, but can easily change the subject when I see eyes starting to glaze over. I can chat about Sino-American relations, ocean biology and other subjects like why Family Guy is so very, very entertaining aside from my being from Rhode Island.
The things I’m looking for in a woman? I think the same that we all look for in someone we can get close to. A genuine connection. I personally feel that’s a big part of things. If we can have good conversation and laugh a little, that’s a great start. I look for a woman who’s affectionate and who makes an effort so I’m not the only one doing the small things that count. I enjoy keeping myself fit and active and mutual physical attraction is important as well. I admire a woman who keeps in shape, not just because of the physical aspect of things. It shows a sense of drive. Commitment, perseverance, goal orientation and inner strength are all representative of a physically active woman, IMHO. And then it comes full circle back to the connection. If it’s there, it’s there; an ease and excitement found when around one another. Just a warning, a lot of woman can’t get past the transcendent mullet I have as my hairstyle of choice. Joke. I hope those things went out with Charles in Charge. If any of this sounds interesting, shoot me an email and I’ll be more than happy to respond. Happy hunting!
Meet a soulmate from United States. Hello and thanks for stopping by. I know this is a longish profile but hopefully it conveys a good sense of me and gives you the opportunity to make an informed choice.
So, a bit about me: I'm relaxed, secure, masculine (in a metro kind of way). I can be quiet, warm, playful and sweet as well as extroverted, competitive, and ambitious (I'm an enfp on Myers-Briggs or a healthy 6 on the enneagram for the personalty-type types out there). I actually enjoy being me...I have a rich inner life that is full of nuance and pleasure at simple things like walking down a tree lined street on a summer day.
I'm a psychotherapist and this line of work is very congruent with who I am at core. I'm an intuitive, feeling and expressive person (and no, I'm not gay...I'm just sensitive and use product, it's not the same thing). I used to work for IBM but am now busy building a business that trains therapists work with trauma.
What else...I love being cynical and punky but its a pretty thin farce for how grateful and excited I am about being alive. I've got a dark sense of humor and appreciate the role suffering has in all of our lives. There is nothing about being alive that I want to turn away from...even darkness has value and meaning for me.
I'm not quite sure what to make of it but the older I get, the less narcissisticly fascinated I am by myself and my own ego that needs things to be a certain way. I feel like I spend less time and energy discerning between good experiences and bad experiences...it's all just becoming experience that's pretty brilliant no matter what's actually happening. I have a good friend who runs meditation groups; he looks at me and my skepticism of spiritual traditions that promote ego transcendence and he laughs that I'm somehow taking a psychological back door into a spiritual reality. I think he's right and I'm good with that as long as Eckart Tolle doesn't take away my capacity to be douchey at times (in a loving way).
What else? I'm stable and fun. I'm totally, totally fun and one of my favorite things is to be in chill mode with good friends. In fact, I'm likely to enjoy doing anything as long as it's with friends. In particular, I love warmth and summer activities like volleyball, biking around town, beer kickball.
Spending time with friends and their children has been great and totally cracks me up...yes, I'm that uncle who has fart contests / battles with the 4 year olds.
In terms of relationships, I've learned so much and have thankfully matured from the ones I've had...even the ones that were horribly painful I'm grateful for. My belief is that making a relationship work requires consciously nurturing it along with just plain trusting yourself and the person you are with...trusting the process of being together and letting it unfold in its own time and way as opposed to getting anxious and locking down or forcing something when things get scary. I figure the relationship may work out or it may not but trusting it along the way can allow things to grow and shift in wonderfully organic, truthful ways. Again, being transparent and trusting the process vs demanding an outcome is a practice...sometimes I'm great at it, sometimes I'm not.
Date a man from United States. It's pretty hard to sum myself up in 200 words or less. However, I will tell you that I'm very active, and enjoy being outdoors. Life's too short to spend inside sitting on the couch watching television. Not that there's anything wrong with an occasional movie night. I'm open to try anything at least once, as long as it doesn't involve killing animals! Other than that I'm pretty adventurous. I do tend to be a little shy until I get to know someone. Once I get to know you though lookout, because I tend to be pretty sarcastic. Anything else you want to know just ask
Meet single man from United States. I just moved here from Chicago to Denver . I moved here for work , I love it here . I've been coming out to Colorado for years . So when I got a job here I was ready to move here . I'm a pretty good guy easy to get a long with I hike bike ride going for walks working out doing anything out doors . I'm a pretty normal guy I work hard and play even harder . I have a snowmobile and been riding for many years . I can't wait to do some riding here in Colorado . I would like to get into snowboarding . I did it a few years ago and would like to start it up again .
So what kind of women am I looking for . I would really like to meet someone that I can be friend with . and if it feels right more . She doesn't have to be easy going . I'm already easy going . Open minded would nice . If you have kid that is fine . I was raised by a single mom , so I can under stand a few things as a single mothers son . She should like flowers because I like buying flowers .
If You like what you see here give me a email . The IM or chat may not be great for me I don't spend much time on my computer .I would really like to email for a bit and if it feels right meet for coffee or something like that .I know that could be hard for some people . I'm a very good guy with a big heart and would really like to get to know you . If you get a email from me and don't feel I'm right for you just let me know . Be honest . Because I will be honest with you . You can only hurt my feeling by not being honest . I look forward in meeting and getting to know you
Some of my pics are from before I moved here . I've lost about 40 pounds with the Colorado diet . From getting out there and enjoying everyday . Plus i quit smoking for almost a year . I'm never smoking again .
Date someone special from Denver, United States. I consider myself to be a kind, compassionate, and good humored person. I believe honesty and trust are key in any relationship. I've lived in Colorado for 12 years. Born in Pennsylvania, and grew up in Texas. Also lived in Ohio, North Carolina, and Washington state. I love to travel and explore new places. I am a proud veteran of the US Army. Big football, basketball, and hockey fan. I enjoy exercising as much as possible. Hiking is my favorite outdoor activity. Going to movies, concerts, and playing pool are a few of my favorite nighttime activities. Enjoy video games as well. My family and friends mean everything to me. I hope to raise children someday. I would like to meet a woman who shares some of my interests, but being able to have a good conversation about anything is very important to me. I'm always looking to learn and find new ways to enjoy life.
Meet a soulmate from Denver, United States. I am an easygoing gentleman who enjoys bowling, reading, playing pool, and having a good time. I enjoy dabbling in outdoor activities like hiking and biking. I enjoy a variety of music, but not very much into rap or hip hop . I am always looking for new adventures. My ideal match would be someone who has a variety of interests and is fairly active and is interested in the same activities as myself.
Date a man from Denver, United States. looking for some one who is real and into me as much as im into them. its good to be serious but have to have fun also. i would love to find some one that is goin somewhere and is willing to share an be my other 1/2.
Meet single man from Denver, United States. If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous, yet are also responsible and mature, then things are off to a great start. I would describe myself as unmaterialistic, with an interest in traveling the world. Over the last several years, I have traveled extensively across Europe.
I'm looking for someone who is compatible and shares some common interests. I prefer a person who is non-judgemental and responsible yet also doesn't take all of life too seriously. Of course, chemistry and attraction are part of the equation too.
I enjoy skiing and being up in the mountains to experience the winter atmosphere up there. I'd also like to find a swing dance class in the area, if you're interested in trying it out.
Date someone special from Colorado, United States. 39 Single dad, living in Denver. Moved here from Boston to ski for a few seasons, that was six years ago. Love to ski, Mt bike, ride dirtbikes, hike,etc..outdoorsy stuff. Don't watch sports. Will go to an occasional game with friends. Not really sure what I'm looking for yet. Just want to meet someone who wants to do outdoorsy stuff with me.
Meet a soulmate from Colorado, United States. I'm full of life,life is to short to be indoors all the time,i love being around people and animals,I seek a women with about the same qualities and enjoys kids,cause mine are my life.I love to work but,theres a time to work a time to play a time to rest and a time for love
Date a man from Colorado, United States. I have recently moved to Denver and am absolutely loving it. After settling in at my job I am definitely looking to meet some people and explore my new city and the mountains. I am looking for an attractive, great girl to get to know slowly and possibly have a serious long lasting relationship with. After living in both Florida and Arizona for long periods of time I think I have found the place where I want to settle down. I am very confident in myself and know exactly what I am looking for at this stage in my life. Staying in shape and eating right is very important to me and would ideally be important to her as well. It would be great if she had a passion for sports as well. I am thinking about getting an Av's ticket package this winter and would like to find a companion for that :-). A spontaenous side is a plus too knowing that if I say lets go somewhere for the weekend she would be down for that. She must also love and desire children. I have coached both football and baseball in the past and am really looking forward to becoming a father someday.
Meet single man from Colorado, United States. I'm a journeyman plumber with a great sense of humor. I'm looking for a special person.. I was in the Air force for four years, and I am a big weight lifter and I like to watch what I eat.39 years came fast, so I need to consider what time is left and enjoy it!!!
