Date men from United States / Colorado / Denver, 39 year old - page 5
Date single man from Denver, United States. I'm just a simple, hard-working, fun-loving and honest guy looking to meet the right woman.
About me... I'm caring, honest, loyal, respectful, kind, humble, passionate, laid-back and generally all around easy going. I don't like lying and I'm not very good at it so we can pretty much rule that out. I can admit when I'm wrong and I'm not perfect so I do a fair amount of admitting... However, it can be difficult to admit I'm wrong on the rare occasion that I'm right, as that would be telling a lie. ; ) I on occasion enjoy a good debate but I can't stand arguments (there is a difference.) I'm also very ambitious, hard-working, calculating, driven and competitive in the right situation but I prefer to leave that part of my life at work or in the classroom.
About you... Fun, kind, and plays well with others.
About us... Who knows? However, if you value the same qualities I do, we'll probably get along quite well.
Meet a soulmate from Denver, United States. I have a love of film, enjoy a good brunch, have been known to see a play or three, smile at the scent of old books, like to take wrong turns while exploring new cities, I prefer my sporting events live, and I might even do the art walk every other month. (Is it bad I find the people and buildings sometimes more interesting than the art?) I am often smart and on my good days I may even be wise, have a dry and biting wit, love a great conversation, and for some reason I still think bunk beds are cool!
I often think the world is a little more interesting than most people notice, and you just have to be open to looking at it or be willing to occassionally go the wrong way. I am someone who appreciates the little, quiet moments in the middle of the grand adventures. This may be the serenity of a cliffwalk in Howth Ireland, taking a wrong turn and ending up finding some cool little place you never knew existed, or just connecting with a little movie most people never heard of. I am often driven by my curiosity and need to know a bit more. (This can get me into trouble in conversations...)
Like pretty much everyone else here, I want someone who is smart, funny, and attractive. But I also want someone who challenges me because I think life is about continuously learning, growing, and exploring. I want Irene Adler, Kit Ryan, Vesper Lynd, Amelia Pond. I am also looking for someone who likes the random spur of the moment activities. ("I know nothing about this band but their poster looks really cool, so do you want to go?") Yes, this and looking at the Westword two hours before an event starts are sometimes how I plan my weekends.
Date a man from Denver, United States. I'm a happy and very busy guy. I enjoy working and being out there! If someone gives me their time and effort in a relationship, I only try to give it back 10 times. You must love Bulldogs. My must haves are the following traits honesty, respect, companionship, enjoy being given to as well as give back, equal effort, caring, comfortable with who you are and desire to have fun. I often get the question after dates "why are you single" well, I tried and was engaged in 2003 so I did try.Ha. The last serious relationship I was in she was a severe pathological liar and I was dating 3 girls in 1..... Not much more to say on that one... Great stories tho! You'll have to ask because I wont bring it up!
What I'm looking for is someone that is ready to be respected, cared for, willing to give back, who is ready for/seeking an honest and loving relationship, no games(other than humorous playing around of course) wants to be treated the right way with some old fashion ways mixed in.
What I'm seeking in a relationship is a work/career or driven type of person, independent(but yet willing to accept assistance without feeling vulnerable or that I'm taking something away from them). I'm a giver and only want her to know that I want to support or help constructively. A desire to assist with the children's cancer NPO I volunteer direct and willing to sacrifice time for those that need help or simply our friends. I've dated girls that when the weekend comes its only what they are willing to do rather than make more friends and have a great time in groups. Some of these might sound harsh but at 38 I feel that I know what needs I have and that there's someone out there that might have some of the same views or just wanting a guy to be a rock in their life.
I don't feel that relationships are as hard as people make it! I do have a theory on the subject.....
A love for or a willing desire to golf would be appreciated! Final request would be no "WINKS" please, it seems a bit weird for some reason! Thank you for taking the time to learn about me!
Send me a note and not a wink if your interested.
Meet someone special from Denver, United States. I am that i am. I am a artist, who is able to survive off of my art. I am blessed to have been able to be self employed doing what i love for a living for over ten years. I am a compassionate energy worker who prides himself in doing for others. I live by the golden rule, and value the saying "live simply, so others may simply live". i am honest , sincere, intelligent, motivated, loyal (i never cheated in a relationship). i have a quest for adventure and knowledge. i believe in personal liberty. i have the east coast wit, sarcasm, charm, but with the laid back, enjoy the outside, no worries west coast/colorado attitude. I spent time on both coasts. I believe in love.
My religion is a major part of my life. It is so much a part that it guides all my actions and words. I don't worship at a temple, worship idols, or preach. It flows from my being. You would never know i was a Buddhist if i didn't tell you, you'd just think i was an incredibly nice guy : ) If you always try to do and say the "right" thing, put others above yourself, live compassion, love love, practice forgiveness, give just to give (not to get in return), have no fear, and can accept things/people for how they are.....you might be a buddhist too! I don't care what religion you are, except that these must be core principles to it (agnostics and atheist welcomed). I am not a fan of hypocrites. Please be a beacon of kindness and light. How you treat others reflects on what you think of yourself.
I am straight forward, blunt, and brutally honest. I expect the same. I try to approach the truth, or my words with caution, respect, and try to chose the correct words before i speak. Please don't be offended if i say i am not physically attracted to you, nor will i be offended, if you do the same.
RE-NAMED SECTION-----WHAT I"M LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN
PLEASE WRITE IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU MEET SOME/MOST OF THESE:
put others before yourself
are compassionate
have a relationship with spirituality/god
re compassionate to/or have animals
are a buddhist
you meditate
are interested in energy
are a type of vegetarian
know money is evil
know a career is important/ but living today is more important
can accept people for who they are
are at least 5' 1"
are at least equally attractive as me (physically i give myself a 7, personality and qualities a 9)
are skinny, thin, above average, , slightly curvy, average-- We all have an attractive type
recognize things that need to be changed within yourself and are able to change them
are active in your free time (biking, running, hiking, gym, walking, etc.)
are confident
are honest and loyal
believe in monogamy
are educated/or have a quest for knowledge
can have a conversation about anything and hold your ground
know the difference between LOVE and LUST
have all your teeth - and have a great smile.
have all your hair--preferably it's long and not dyed red/purple/orange
are younger than me or only a few year older (some older women are hot!)
have found your voice, and are not afraid to use it
are not offended easily
know that telling lies is wrong
you do yoga, reiki, tai chi or other spiritual practices
you are a shaman or naturopath
are not afraid of meeting new people
you embrace differences
you understand the artist type
don't have kids now, but may or may not want them
know a good man is more than a six pack (abs or beer)
you don't do drugs
know prescription drugs are more deadly than illegal drugs, and avoid both
you left partying behind, but can still have fun with your friends
you don't drink everyday, or get drunk every weekend, or at every social occasion
enjoy live music, hanging with friends, small dinner parties
are an artist, musician, writer
you are not looking for a sugar daddy or someone to take care of you
you have a liberal/accepting family
Date single man from United States. I'm dedicated to my work, success and ways to better myself every day. I have to travel, but I don't want to do it alone. I was born in Denmark as an American citizen (I don't need to get married to stay in America). I'm also quick witted, honest and have settled down a lot in the last few years. I am looking for an independent woman who is caring and sweet.., a woman who knows who she is and feels good about it.
Meet a soulmate from United States. Very reliable, hard working, fun to be around and will always have your back. Extremely greatful for my two health kids. I'm looking for someone that likes to hangout with friends enjoy doing spur of the moment things enjoy everthing that Colorado has to offer and then also just be able to kick back sometimes watch some sports or other stuff on tv relaxing on the couch.
Date a man from United States. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and since you have I am going be frank up front and start of with some of the things I am not, prefer to avoid and will not respond to:
1.) I am not a "pretty boy" or "sugar daddy". If you judge a man on appearances and wealth alone, please move on. I do not live outside my means and I prefer to find someone who is the same. I could care less what the "Jones' have or think"
2.) Do not contact me if you live 30 or more miles away from Lakewood, CO; I will most likely not respond;
3.) If you are seperated there is only one thing you will find on here and I am not getting mixed up in that crap;
4.) If you are seperated but you state you are divorced, that is lying up front and will be discovered;
5.) If you have been divorced less than a year, or single less then a couple of months please do not bother me;
6.) At one time in my life I skiied at least once a week if not more, and through the years, it has lost a lot of its appeal to me (I grew up 20 minutes from Beaver Creek). However, with the right person I would consider going again!
7.) If you do not have a sense of responsibility, both in life in general and financially, please move on;
8.) I am by no means a fitness freak, but I do my best to get to the gym 3 or more days a week because of all the positive benefits it provides. Therefore, I would like to find someone who has the same mentallity;
9.) My dog is spoiled.
Okay, now if you have made it this far and have not deleted me, here is some things about me...............To say the least I am well rounded, educated and driven. I am generally not afraid to try something new. I was born in Colorado and raised in small western Colorado town! I was raised to appreciate the importance of family, friends, morals, a strong work ethic and the simpler things in life. I am a bit of a smart ass at times.......
I respect my family, my elders, my friendships, my country, an education, financial responsibilty, honesty, loyality, the environment and commitments. Some of the things I like to do: Fish, spend time with my family and friends, travel, spontaneous road trips, work on my house, wander around on the many trails located in the foothills, go out to dinner and go dancing, take pack trips (foot and on horse) into the back country, read, learn new things, spend time in the mountains, listen to live music, ride my four wheeler, work with my dog, hunt, watch the Broncos, Avalanche and the Rockies, watch the sun rise and set in the mountains or over the ocean. I am apt to drink a cold beer on a Friday night! Things I would like to do include: Learn to tie my own flies (I built my own Flyrod), travel to Australia, New Zealand and Ireland and learn spanish.
Although I still like the occasional night out on the town, my wild streak and the general appeal of the bar scene wore off quite sometime ago. My commitments, interests and energy are so much more important to me then wasting a perfectly good weekend by staying out all night Friday and feeling like an elephant ran me over for two days after words. So, to be blunt, if Lo-Do and being out on the scene are still a major part of your life then chances are we will not get along. But do not get me wrong, I still like to have a good time and when I do go out, I prefer holes in the wall over clubs. A nice patio is a plus. I have a tight nit group of friends, some that I have had for 20 plus years, and we still like to get together and act like we are 24 on occassion.
So if any of the things metioned above seem of interest to you, then I look forward to hearing from you!
Meet someone special from United States. I am a positive person who likes to be active but who also finds time to just relax(veg out). I have a very solid career and two amazing daughters. For the past few years I have dedicated myself to those two things with absolutely no regrets, but now I think its time to look for a companion. I would like to find someone who enjoys concerts, outdoor activities (Mtn biking, golf, running, hiking, etc). Someone who would rather smile than frown and is excited about life. Someone who would like to visit Napa, New York and various other destinations I cant believe I have missed. Someone who would like to head down to Mexico for 3-4 days on a random weekend but also is able to work around a busy work and family schedule. Is that possible? :-)
Date single man from Colorado, United States. I'm 5'9 brown hair green eyes average weight. Looking for someone who's positive yet realistic about life, enjoys the outdoors fishing, hiking,etc. also enjoys just staying in and watching a movie. I work in the flooring business. I like all kinds of music from country to rap. When i do watch tv i enjoy comedys and drama some reality. Just looking for someone who is'nt affraid to make a commitment. I need someone who likes to laugh but knows how to communicate and work thourgh difficult sittuations that come with being in a relationship. I'm not the perfect guy or mr. Right but I will b committed and faithfull. At this point you'll just have to take my word for it.
Meet a soulmate from Colorado, United States. My closest friends would describe me as adventurous, positive, and energetic. I'm passionate about many things, love to be active, and it's a goal of mine to experience and enjoy what life and Colorado has to offer! I've definitely been known to be spontaneous, whether it be a quick trip to a tropical location, going overseas somewhere, deciding to go to a concert at the last minute, or of course a trip to the mountains! My family and friends have been extremely important throughout my life, and I continue to be influenced and grow through new experiences and adventures.
I am looking for a partner to share what life has to offer with me. I truly love to have fun and seek adventure, and I'd love to share these experiences with someone! I also have an immense passion for music, travel, and golf. I'm confident and flexible, and deep down inside I'm a romantic at heart. I do love to pamper my mate, and be pampered, too!
It would be great to meet some like-minded people. Let's chat and, who knows, maybe we'll be a perfect fit!
Date a man from Colorado, United States. Im ready for love I like stay at home with the family and have fun when I have chance I realy want a woman that knows what she want because I know what I need to be happy in this short life so please be carfull
Meet someone special from Colorado, United States. Now where to start? I tend to be pretty even keeled person. I try not to have any more drama than is absolutely necessary. Everyone's life has some drama; I just don't revel in it or say "Please, may I have another?” I am Divorced but not "Damaged Goods". I don't know if I fall into either the "Half Full" or "Half Empty" categories. I'd like to describe myself as a "Realist". I look at the situation and try to come to the best decision. Sometimes they are easy, sometimes hard, and while it can be argued that not making a decision is a decision, it doesn't resolve the issue at hand, so I don't consider it a relevant choice. I don't always insert the filter between my brain and my mouth correctly. It gets me into trouble sometimes but I don't see myself changing anytime soon, so I apologize randomly just in case I offended someone and didn't notice. I was once described by a good friend who is no longer with us as the "Peron who says what everyone else thinks." Big believer in "If you didn't want my opinion, then you shouldn't have asked". Please don't think this makes me crass or crude. That I am some blundering Neanderthal bashing my way though life. It just means that I don't usually sugar coat things that need to be said.
I have two Daughters that are the center of my world. They are starting to get a little older and are beginning to have a life outside of "Dad". I get them 50% of the time. Besides work, parenting, and laundry (all three things seem to take up a huge part of my life) I also play Frisbee Golf. I haven’t been a bar hopper in a long time but I do enjoy a drink out. I like to dance but feel a little out of place at the 20 something hip hop bars. I didn't say I was a good dancer, but I do enjoy it, sober or otherwise. I like to play pool but if it wasn't for slop, I'd never get a ball in the pocket. I like darts but please stand WAY back. I spend my free time reading, playing video games, gardening, and cleaning. I have 4 cats; I'm still not sure exactly how that happened. It's not that I don't enjoy them, but my mother was the "crazy cat lady" growing up and I had made a vow, a lot longer ago then I like to remember, that two was more then enough. One of my kids told me "It is two day, just two squared". And people put down public education.
Brief note on two hobbies that other people find weird. I study advanced math and Quantum Physics. Big science channel and discovery channel people in my house.
I'm looking for someone who also shares an interest in trying something new. Someone who doesn't mind stepping outside of their comfort zone. I'm looking for someone who can stand up for themselves. Who can not only tell me I'm wrong, but can then explain why. I'm hoping to find someone who can hold up their end of a coversation. Someone who enjoys laughing and smiling. In the end, I guess I'm just looking for someone who is a mostly functional person. I don't believe that any of us are completely functional, so mostly is a much more realistic expectation.
