Date men and women from United States / California / San Jose, 28 year old - page 3
Date a soulmate from San Jose, United States. Do you like hot chicks that are feisty yet sweet, outgoing, semi-intellectual, dark yet bubbly, and overly logical? Niiice...
As far as interests are concerned, I'm in school studying dance, psychology, AND interior design.. so if you want to talk about projection and sublimation, pirouettes, and matching throw pillows count me in! (though the latter two are slightly less enthralling topics). I also enjoy casual friendly debate, and occasionally will try to prove to you that gravity doesn't exist and that things fall up, and other ridiculous crap, so hopefully you have a high tolerance for extremely amateur Socratic dialogue. I love being active, and am pretty much up for anything. I love dancing, and am a ballroom dance instructor and contemporary dancer, but don't worry... I don't care if you can dance yourself. I prefer being the talented one really, and if you can stand still like a pole even better! I would describe my personality as pretty outgoing and silly, with a tendency to laugh at everything from all your amAAAzingly comical jokes, to all the jokes you didn't know you were making, to you losing your job and getting hit by a bus on the same day (Freakin hillaaarrrious!!!). So here's the important part: if one or more of the following qualities describe YOU I may just think you're super sexy...
1. You're a witty smartass (20 points)
2. You're open minded, semi-intellectual (or at least you think you are) and you're nearly as logical as me.( Hahahahaha! give up!)
3. You're Agnostic... but Atheists take a close 2nd place
4. You're slim and mildly in shape. I tend to like somewhat athletic guys, or a least guys who will stand on a tennis court and let me hit balls at them.
5.. You're very outgoing, extroverted, talkative and silly. Basically a low-level douchebag...
6. We have chemistry and you know you're sexy! Though you're not trying to hook up asap (you know who you are!) You can even start out as friends, since suspense= hotness!
7. You're a passionate romantic, and are man enough to handle a small amount of "tango" in a your relationship. Afterall.. making up is fun to do!!
8. You can see women's perspective and at least "kinda" get us. TEST: when a woman says "Oh my god, I totally hate my boss! blah blah blah..." what is the best response?
A) "If you're having problems with her you should talk to her, or consider getting a new job."
B) "Wow! She sounds like a total B-yotch! Forget her! Mmmm..You look great in those jeans, by the way!"
9. Your the world's GREATEST at being humble!! 2nd only to me of course!!! For serious though.. u know that nobody's perfect, and that awesome relationships take a little work (eek!) from both parties (Nooo!!). Basically your relationship motto is not "Thou shalt cater to MEE whilst I refuse to return back massages!!!"
10. Lastly and perhaps MOST importantly: You don't take life too seriously! After all, if at first you don't succeed, then skydiving just isn't for you...
Meet people from San Jose, United States. I love my life how it is right now,but simply want a special man to complete it.
I have my little pet family that makes my day every morning when i wake up.
If i had what it takes to have an animal shelter.
I would have one, just so i can rescue all the homeless and abused animals.
Date someone special from San Jose, United States. Recently one of my best friend asked me what were the top five traits that I'm looking for in a man. I didn't know how to respond at that time because although the question may have seemed simplistic it made me think about it more intently. This is what i came up with:
1. Character- I want him to know what he wants. I want him to be genuine. He needs to be authentic and real; one who doesn't play games. I want him to say what he means and act on what he says. I don't want him to say things that he thinks I want to hear. I want him to be comfortable under his own skin and be confident in a humble way. He shouldn't feel a need to show off and he should feel comfortable for who he is and what he has. He needs to be kind to others and not just to people he wants to be associated with. I want him to be open-minded and worldly.
2. Adores me- I want this person to adore me for who I am and who I strive to become. I want him to chase me and see me as the woman of his dreams even with my flaws. I know I'm not perfect but I know that I try to be a better person each and every day with everyone especially my family and friends.
3. Kindhearted/ Generous- I want someone who isn't frugal with his emotions and time. This person needs to be as generous with me and my family as he is with his own because I'd naturally do the same.
4. Same Expectations- I like to live life moment to moment and this means that in the course of getting to know this person I want to go with the flow. If something more serious evolves than I'd be open to the idea but I'd like to take my time to find a compatible companion rather than rushing into something and getting stuck.
5. Attraction- We need to naturally make each other laugh. I need to be attracted to him physically, intellectually, and spiritually. By the way, the way a man carries himself in a fitted suit is so sexy ;)
Of course, this is just a list. I'm not going to live by it but it is a starting point from where I like to start.
