Date men and women from United States / California / La Costa, 56 year old

Date someone special from La Costa, United States. I am a middle aged woman who has "been there" "done that" -- now I am heading into this new phase of my life with a positive outlook yet realistic as well. I am successful in my career -- self sufficient and have a 15 year old son who is very important to me and would need to be for anyone I get serious about. I am looking for friendship at the moment -- with no expectations but to find some quality people and spend some quality time together. I love to travel and I am very independent. I am looking for someone who is fun - spontaneous - not afraid to share *feelings* and has a great sense of humor! consider the ideal partner someone who has enough interests similar to mine that we will enjoy doing those together and enough that are different to both introduce the other to new things as well as a life separate from each others. This keeps the magic going. I consider one of the most important characteristics or qualities is integrity and trust in my partner. Someone whom I completely trust and can count on. Living close enough to one another for seeing each other on enough of a regular basis so the relationship can grow.
I think having a realistic outlook on relationships is important. They don't just magically happen. But some people bring out the worse in you and then there are those that bring out the best in you --- you feel it. it feels natural and wonderful at the same time. That is something that I think is mandatory. It is easy to know the difference. Of course physical and sexual attraction is important -- but someday -- all that will be left is the ability to enjoy one anothers company. So that is primary!
I'd just like to add...
I love being with people who make you feel more alive when you have been with them --- they regenerate your battery. Some people drain it. You know the difference. I love to be with those that make me feel more creative and think outside of the "box" and are willing to consider new ideas - as well as try new adventures. Travel is a real bonus. Whether a short distance (picnic on the beach) to further away --- I love the adventure and fun of sharing those experiences. Feeling comfortable talking about ANYTHING (and I mean anything!) is very important and is the match that lights my fire! It is very sexy to be with someone who is authentic --- and feels comfortable with who they are and asking for help -- if they need it or being ok with you doing the same. My libido is definitely between my ears! :)