Date women from United States / Arizona / Spring Valley, 41 year old

Date someone special from Spring Valley, United States. fun, easygoing,stay in, or night on the town; my goal is to enjoy, have fun, pass it on.. my ideal match has a good sense of himself...sense of humor, and sense enough to appreciate me.
i take delight in being myself. Greater delight in allowing others to just Be....

Meet a soulmate from Spring Valley, United States. I have lived long enough to learn that some aspects of me stays the same, some changes by circumstances and some are yet to be discovered and learned.But here we go:
I was born March 1971. I married my college classmate when I was almost 20 years old, but I got divorced 7 years later. After my divorce, I did have a few relationships, but none worked out. After my latest relationship, I decided to take a break from dating which was 3-4 years ago. It wasn't until last year that I decided that I was ready to give it another try hoping to meet my mate. Who am I looking for?
I am looking for a man who is independent yet willing to make a relationship work. A man who is not controlling yet keeps an eye on me. I am hoping to find my best friend, my partner of crime and who stands beside me on this journey we call life.
I grew up in a family in which education was a value. Although I do think that one's education's level does not make who that person is, I do expect you to know how to spell. Additionally,I trust money makes life easier, but it does not bring happiness,so I am not impressed by the car you drive, but I care if it is a safe ride.
I embrace it if you have traveled around the globe. I do love traveling too. I love what I learn from meeting other cultures as it has always expanded my point of view.