Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Webb, 38 year old

Date someone special from Webb, United States. First and foremost I am looking for a friend first. Someone who enjoys the simple things in life and simply put enjoys my company.
Yes I am separated but I am NOT looking for a hookup. That is not who I am. I've never been like that and no need to start now. I am a genuine honest down to earth man who loves people and is looking for a long term relationship down the road.
I am truly one of the good guys. I want to find a woman who appreciates a real man. Not a pretty boy that won't get his hands dirty but a roll up your sleeves and make things happen kinda guy.
I am a little bit country and a little bit rock and roll. I like sports, I like fast cars. However, I have a refined side. I like the theatre, museums, history. I play the drums and on occasion I write music.
I was in the military so I've been a lot of places and I've seen a lot of things. Some were awesome, some were weird, some were scary and some were down right nasty.
Family is important to me... not just my kids but my whole family and it is a big family. I do not mind children at all. In fact I am really good with kids.
Im the type of guy who can repair your vehicle in the morning, fix your ceiling fan in the afternoon and then take you to a play that night.
I am a fun person to be around. Well at least I think I am. Life is way too short to not have fun.
Believe it or not, I like to go shopping, although I admit I grow tired of it quicker than I'm sure most of you ladies do. :)
I have a very strong work ethic and do spend many hours a week at work but I also know how to enjoy time away from work.
I truly enjoy laughing and hope to find someone who wants to laugh with me.
Im spiritual but not religious. I was raised a baptist but I don't get caught up in dogma. I have a certain set of beliefs and I know what God means to me.
I'm a simple romantic. It's the little things that count.
The ideal lady for me must be intelligent first. Good converstaion is a must.
I don't have any one kind of lady I'm attracted too but a great smile and nice eyes get me everytime.
By the way... I have all my hair and a great smile. :) (i was asked)