Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. Here goes. I am a bit rusty in the "describing myself and my ideal match" area, so please have patience. I am a very loyal and faithful person. I was married for over 20 years, and it ended in a very amicable and civil manner. I am, first and foremost, my childrens' mother. Their wellbeing and happiness are vital and will always come first. I also love being outside, either gardening, hiking, or just walking in the woods. There is no place I'd rather be than in or near water of any kind, be it a pool, lake or ocean. I am inquisitive, and interested in people's stories. I love to ask lots of questions. I am also pretty outgoing, have a good sense of humor am a good listener, and love to go out to dinner or just sit at a nice bar and have great conversations over a glass or two of wine or beer. I also like to cozy up and snuggle on the couch and watch a good movie...... So, here I am, looking for that elusive connection, those nervous but amazing butterflies, an undeniable attraction, and, of course, the ever important and oh-so-powerful chemistry. I have a vision, and this is one step toward creating the life I know, deep, deep down, that I was destined to live, with the person I was destined to live it with. Life is full of possibilites waiting to be uncovered, and that is my task-to turn the potential of my life into reality. This site is one step. I am not interested in drama or controversy. I am happy, and want someone who is happy also. I am looking only for those who are confident in who they are, are outgoing, have a good sense of humor, like to have fun, and love to DO things, not just TALK about doing things. Why not? We only live once, right? Friends first, then...who knows where it will lead? I'm ready..Are you?