Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. You can never have enough friends, BUT if that extra special person comes my way, I dont want to overlook something that could be so great and wonderful. I dont like to be dominated or my intelligence taken for granted. I dont like being told what to do or how to do it. The man of my dreams would have to know that I am in control of MY life and I am not in control of THEIR life. I want someone to walk side by side with and have equal and mutual respect, admiration and most of all affection for each other. Someone to share my sad times with as well as my joys. Who understands when I need a hug, a backrub, or some good old fashioned kissing! Is it too much to ask for a little kissing??? Once in a while??? Remember the scene in the movie "Its a wonderful life" when the old guy on the porch said- "Why dont you kiss her instead of talking her to death?" I love that! Guys thats what we want! But most of all - Have a sense of humor! Learn how to laugh! Even at yourself!