Date women from United States / Arkansas / Siloam Springs, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from Arkansas, United States. Im a single mother of two boys, 13 and 23 and they are my life!! My oldest is a US Marine (VERY PROUD!!) and has already moved out and started his own life. I am incredibly goofy, a bit sassy, hyper, and young at heart!!! Not immature... I was actually born 41 years ago... But I'm really 34! Ha ha ha I am very independent, and am not needing someone to sweep me off of my feet and support me for life. I'm just waiting for that best friend for life that God has in mind for me. I love to laugh, and make others laugh... so, if God and I are on the same page here he would be tall, able to hold an intelligent conversation, GREAT sence of humor, Able to take care of himself, well groomed lol!!! (I come from a military family), be secure mentally and happy with life as it is. I truely believe that if your not happy with life as it is, no significant other will make any difference. I find myself drawn to people that are genuinely kind, upbeat, adventurous, can laugh at themselves, and are comically sarcastic. Looks help... Not gonna lie... Ya have to be attracted to someone in some way or they wouldnt have caught your attention!!! To me... Eyes say a lot about a person!! ... However looks only catch my attention!! Personality, zest for life, integrity, and similar values have to keep it!!! I am a tad bit CDO... Which is like OCD, but the letters are in alphabetical order like they should be!! Lol!! I don't think anyone would ever really consider me to be high maintanence, however I am a very hard worker, and do try to take care of myself. My kids keep me hip, of course while reminding me that I'm old!! Ha ha!! If I'm not at work, I'm working in my yard, someone elses yard, sitting in my float on the river, finding something productive to get into, or headed somewhere fun with my kiddo. I like to keep things simple, really don't like to shop... If I need something... I go get it!!! Too many other things to do that don't needlessly waiste so much time!! Im not much of a bar fly, but ironically enough, I am a bartender (accounting and sales bored me). I tend bar at a Mexican restaurant (my favorite food) in Fayettville... (I make a lot of Mojitos!! ) I love to listen to live music and an occasional night out with friends is great, but I don't live for it. I'm perfectly content at home cooking out (im a good cook!!), snuggled into the couch with a good show, sitting on my porch enjoying a nice evening, or playing dance central on the XBox. Lol!! ; D. I do smoke, trying to quit... but I won't do it around people that it offends.. I would never let it get in the way of meeting that someone... Its not that important to me!! I simply have no room in my life for games, drama, druggies, jealousy, uptight, negative, and/ or angry dispositions. You only get one chance at life, make the most of it and enjoy it!!!! I'm Simply holding out for someone who treats me the way they want to be treated... provided that they think highly of themselves. (lol!!) I know that he is out there... I just haven't met him yet.

Meet a woman from Arkansas, United States. Looking for my soul mate.... One that isnt a drunk or abusive... One that isnt jealous of my kids and my relationship with them..... One that is good to me and my kids.... I am avery outgoing person but I also like quiet time also.

Date someone special from Arkansas, United States. I am a country girl at heart. I love the smell of rain in the morning. Animals roaming around...hopefully not any poisonous ones! I know what it's like to bale hay, push over trees with a tractor, repair fence, and chase after cows. I'm trying to decide between building a house or living on a houseboat...can't decide. I just got back from a life-changing scuba trip to Fiji on a live-aboard boat and I have been aching to get back on the water...any water.
I did go to college and law school and I have a wonderful job that I love although I am not a work-a-holic. Even though I'm an independent and strong woman, I do like to be treated like a lady. I'm looking for someone who wants to share their time with me and if it was something permanent, fine, if we just ended up dating for a decade, that would be fine too! I'm looking for someone who--will let me fall asleep on his shoulder; who will kiss my neck while I'm doing the dishes and make me forget all about the dishes; who will open the door for me; who will make me laugh; who will get into a pillow fight with me; who will not take offense to my often sarchastic and raunchy sense of humor; who will be comfortable going out to the theater as staying at home watching a movie and eating pizza; who sees me across a crowded room and HAS to kiss me; who wants to hear the sound of my voice before he goes to sleep, someone I can spoil, travel with and share my time with.
Also, honesty is key for me. I don't think a relationship or friendship can move forward unless both people are truthful with each other. So my truths are...if you only want a friendship, that is fine, but tell me in the first email or soon thereafter. If you are not looking for a relationship and just looking to have fun for the "short term", please, pass by my profile. Also, I just lost 37 pounds and I have another 25 to go, but I'm a work in progress and I just keep at it and have rekindled my love for kickboxing. Thank you and Good Luck!

Meet a soulmate from United States. I am a single Mom, I have 3 wonderful kids. 2 are grown and on their own...one is still at home with me, she is 14. My kids are everything to me and come before anything else. I think that family is very important and I am close with my small family. I am divorced and have dated some in the past few years but It seems like that amazing feeling just isn't there or it goes away quickly. I want to find that man who is my best friend, who I can be myself around him completely and who I will will always feel comfortable with and we will support each other always.
I am looking for a guy with a great sense of humor but who knows when to be serious too. And who loves family and realizes the importance of it. Someone who is supportive, loving, caring, honest, gentle and kind. I don't like jealousy, controlling, possessiveness. drama gets old real quick.
Some things I like to do are going out to eat, to the movies, shopping, long walks, hiking, to the lake, boating, going to the bar occasionally especially when there is a good band, dancing, I also love staying home and watching a movie snuggled up on the couch. I love all kinds of music. I mostly listen to country and rock. Some favorite artists are Jason Aldean, Brantley Gilbert, Miranda Lambert, Kings of Leon, Chris Daughtry, Lucero.
I am not really into sports too much but if you are that's ok. : ) I also don't like heights and I have a huge fear of water. But I still like going to the lake and all, I just stay safe.
I just really like to enjoy life and cherish every moment. It's too short not to. : )