Date a soulmate from United States. My friends would describe me as one who always focuses on making others laugh and just be happy altogether. Isn't that what a relationships all about? Putting the other first. I work my buns off and Im lookin for a young lady to give me an excuse to call in sick. But at the same time I need her to understand Im a workin man and I will work until there is no breath in me to keep her happy.