Date men and women from United States / Arizona / Surprise, 75 year old

Date a soulmate from Arizona, United States. When my year-long membership expired, on July 2, 2012, there had been no personal meetings or phone chats, with "Match" members, at all--just a few e-mail correspondences.
My only dinner meeting, which I could not really call a "date," was with a man who thought my photos "stunning," on free "Fish." Sadly, no "sizzle," at all...the gods of love continue to laugh....
Even though I live in Arizona, because my daughter, son-in-law, and grandson live in Los Angeles, California, I would have loved to have met a man, from that area, or one who would enjoy going there with me, to visit them.
Although local dating would have been nice, forming a long-term, monogomous relationship of cohabitation, or even getting married, would have suited me even better.
As an eternally-youthful, exuberant, "Blithe Gemini Spirit," I had hoped to meet an intelligent, refined, cultured, romantic gentleman, who felt the same joy and passion as I do, for "Life and Love," itself.
Moreover, as a constant seeker of knowledge, I wanted someone who could have engaged and stimulated my inquisitive mind with wit and insight, on a variety of topics.
Though we should naturally have shared a myriad of common interests, I would also have indulged my partner's having different ones, such as his going out to play golf or tennis, with the boys: As an only child, I do not equate solitude with loneliness.
My lovely Del Webb-Pulte adult country club community of Sun City Grand-AZ, boasts four golf courses, two fitness centers with indoor and outdoor pools and spas, two restaurants, and a cafe with al fresco dining, among its numerous other amenities.
My ultimate goal is still to meet a reasonably-healthy, successful, stable, kind gentleman (gentle man) who has not lost his boyish qualities, and whose sense of playfulness matches my own.
Blessings,
Jeanine
First Date
Meeting at a nice restaurant for lunch, to see if sparks fly, after establishing an emotional rapport, via e-mail and phone chats.
"What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined...to strengthen each other...to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories."
~~George Eliot

Meet someone special from Arizona, United States. I do not know how to put a photo on line so if that is a requirement I cannot fulfill it...
I am easy going, no temper flares...not necessary at this stage...have friends that I have mainained for decades---enjoy casual--jeans & tee's as well as dressing "up"---with high heels of course...(me wearing the high heels)
enjoy hearing other's points of view re:politics, social agendas, today's life styles-, etc--
whatever one chooses to comment on---how deep is the ocean, how high is the sky????
I certainly do not know...
and I do like LAUGHTER and light-hearted people...not enough time left to endure difficulties..
as I mentioned previously I very much enjoy music, art, theater...to me they bring great pleasure as do books, my pets and my home..
at age 12 I heard "Stardust" for the 1st time---it is still my favorite song...
thank you for your time...

Date men and women from Arizona, United States. Gentleman:
Please note that I am presently seeking only intelligent, educated PEN PALS, with whom to have intellectual, in-depth, gentlemanly communication, on mutual subjects of interest.
My circa 1981 college-days field was, in addition to fine arts, human sexuality and the humanities, whereby I did research and editing for Ph.D. candidates and M.D. specialty students.
However, in spite of my clinical knowledge, this transplanted Southern Belle is strictly a LADY who will never remove the "CL" from her innate CLASS.
WARNING: Lewd text will be summarily reported; NO FLIRTS, SEXUAL PREDATORS, ADDICTS, or OPPORTUNISTS!
Note: I do NOT smoke, drink, gamble, participate in sports, camp out, or travel in RVs; I am used to country clubs, traveling in style, i.e., staying in the best hotels and 5-star resorts, fine dining, and taking cruises.
I am an artist who was a violinist, in my youth, as well as a fashion model and interior decorator in Detroit, Michigan, and Buffalo, New York. Also, a Buffalo S & L branch manager who did financial accounting, a restaurant worker/manager, teacher of social and business etiquette and dress, and business owner/executive's wife. And, the most fun of all, a pet sitter in both Sun City Desert-CA, and Sun City Grand-AZ.
Because of my domestic partner's dementia and grim prognosis, I may soon be open to meeting a local gentleman, with whom to have a platonic relationship, though.