Date a soulmate from Oxford, United States. The woman of my dreams will know it as soon as she begins to read my ad because we will be mentally connected. I am going to let U in on a secret; I know the answer to how to make a woman happy! It can be answered in just two statements,” PAY ATTENTION" to what makes U happy and what does not, what turns U on and what does not, what makes U smile and what does not, what things mean a lot to U and what things do not mean much. "COMMUNICATION” if U look good I will tell U. If U have a problem, I will find out what’s wrong, if U are down in the dumps I will ask why, No matter what is going on we will stop, and take time to just talk. I am in sales and marketing. I am a man that truly loves women and I thank the lord for U ladies... because I dont have a gay bone in my body. I also have a passion for long walks and pillow talks. I enjoy giving massages as well as receiving them (full body preferably) I love women that has a sense of humor because I love to smile.. Open communication and maintaining your attractiveness to each other, are the key to maintaining closeness & oneness. I firmly believe that if U water a relationship it will grow into something beautiful, if left UN-watered it will dry up and die. I like to go to the movies; I like to go out on the water, swim, and ski. I like working out in my yard; I like fixing things that are broken. I can even fix a broken heart if given enough time. I am looking for a kind honest woman of her word that loves and worships her family, if any apply. A woman that has no excessive baggage such as old boyfriends or huubby's tring to hang on, if U have kids its only a problem if you make it a problem. I myself love kids. So there you have it and Welcome to my worldA woman that can be herself and will not try to be something she is not is one of the most beautiful things on this earth. A woman that makes my heart race fast when she smiles at me, laughs with me, looks at me and kisses me. A women that enjoys some simple things as being spoiled. A friend, someone to go places with, likes sports, movies, eating out, cooking in, someone that likes seeing things that they have never seen before. Someone that if things were going good between us and it got late or bad weather, would not be afraid to stay the night sometimes if the drive home is to long for either of us. I don't want to put any pressure on anybody nor do I want any pressure put on me. I want someone just to enjoy me and what I have to offer, as well as offer back so I can enjoy her also. Everything is not always going to go as planed and I know that, I want someone that will not run off if things are not the best all of the time. I want someone that is not afraid to come and ask for help or wants to know how to do something. Someone I can talk to and be honest with and that will be honest with me. Hey I will scratch your back if you will scratch mine. You see I have this problem, if I sit down next to you it will not be very long before I will be rubbing you neck, back, feet, scratching you head, rubbing your temples. Anything to spoil you, and I will try to. I can't help it. Sorry :)