Date men from United States / Alabama / Phenix City, 57 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. So after the end of a 35 year marriage that absolutely devastated me I am searching for a new life and a life partner. I never imagined that I would be explaining my feelings, talking about my emotions or posting pictures on a website, but here I am. I guess this is the medium to go to and find out if there is possibility about someone who posts here. I realize that others may state that they are very simple and basic, but for me it is true. I do not need nor want a lot of intrigue or mystery in a relationship. I believe a relationship should be open and full of communication between the couple. I believe there is an equal partnership between two people where each person’s opinions and concerns are valued and neither is subordinate to the other.
I enjoy life and trying new things. I am ready to begin a life that has some fun in it. I still have to work and enjoy what I do. I have to travel for work a bit, and would love to have someone join if possible, and would like to enjoy some personal travel and enjoyment.
I am socially and fiscally conservative, by that I mean I am not frivolous with money and do not need the newest things just because they are available. I believe commitments should be honored and words mean something. I enjoy being outdoors doing things with my hands, but also enjoy just some quiet together time. I am physically fit and enjoy walking and outdoor activities and hope to share that time with someone.
What I am most looking for is someone who wants to communicate with me not only with words, but also with a soft touch and a glance. I am looking for someone to share their views of life, their expectations, hopes, and dreams. I want to learn the song that is in their heart and sing it to them when they have forgotten it. I do not wish to be involved with a person who decides what I am thinking or feeling without asking me what my thought and feelings are. I prefer a non smoker and a woman who tries to remain fit and physical, and wants to dance and join me in enjoying life.
I enjoy college and professional football, auto racing, physical activities, and traveling. I love my dog and enjoy walking, exercising, and taking her to the gulf. I really believe communication is the key ingredient to a relationship. If you do not talk and communicate I believe you are doomed to fail.

Meet a man from United States. I am a very outgoing guy that accepts challenges, seeks adventure and lives life to it's fullest in every facet of my life. I've "been there/done that" on just about everything a single man could possibly dream of....Never married, but many great relationships grew out of these experiences !!!!!I've been told I'm a good listener and stimulating and energetic conversations on just about any topic with that special someone is quite enjoyable...I'm optimistic,open minded,unselfish,easy going,successful and emotionally fit.....My best traits are loyalty,honesty,integrity and an infectious personality....I am compassionate as well as passionate ...I enjoy an energized spirit for life and our country...I love college sports, (Auburn ) the beach, ( Destin / Panama City ) traveling to unique destinations, (Cruises ) snow skiing, the mountains or backyard BBQ's and quite evenings...I must admit, a night out to dinner and the theatre with a beautiful woman dressed to kill by my side, what a way to spend an evening!!!On the other hand, blue jeans and a sack lunch under a shade tree with you would be a great experience as well...I have many friends and enjoy the times I spend with these friends and family as well and realize the importance of those very special times...I grew up in a family that believed in sensabiity and harmony !!! My parents were together 48 years and never spent non quality time apart !!!! I have no kids, but my nephew has my heart and soul.........If you happen to be looking for me and can't find me, you probably should check the golf course or my farm.......I do love the outdoors and spend as much time as possible hunting and working on our family farm.....When it comes down to the " nitty- gritty ", being single, never married, that's the easy part.......Finding the right mate, well it's like the old farmer said, " it's a " tough row to hoe "......I hope thats the end of the row just ahead !!!!!!!!!!I prefer a woman that is spontaneous and adaptable to lifes many changes. She also would be compatible and at the same time enjoy her independent nature as well......... Sporting events,the beach, theatre, local events, the mountains and family gatherings, she would feel comfortable in attending...I truly admire women who are secure and confident in their inner and outer physical appearance; possessing an aurora of grace and style whether she's in jeans or an evening gown. I like to set the standard, not have it set for me....A woman that knows what she wants and where she's headed is a notch up on my "TOTEM POLE"......I want a woman that gives into the relationship ...I am truly a giver and not a taker, but if you are honest about dating and relationships, it takes a lot of hard work to develope that "bond " thing...I love sensual, sexual,outgoing women that exude confidence and are unabashed when it comes to their aggressiveness. Trust me, it's a talent when used the right way..... I appreciate the confidence and swagger a lady exudes
when she knows she is at her best no matter what event we may be attending...Are you the one I've been looking for ???? Ladies , you have my mug, please do not reply without yours..........