Date women from United States / Alabama / Killen, 45 year old

Date a woman from United States. I love change, my music choices change with my moods, so does my choice in reading material or clothing, ect. I am a people person but also cherish my time alone. I am looking for someone with intelligence and integrity, and someone who has broad interests. My match would be as comfortable in a shirt and tie as he would in blue jeans. He would be at home in the city as well as the country or in another country. My match will love children and pets and old people and support a favorite charity as well as being a leader in his community. He must have a college education but not be so intelligent that he can't relate to others. No perfectionists please!
Online dating...a frustrating experience to say the least. I'm finding out more about myself and what I want specifically. Though Im also finding that no matter how specific I am, this site still sends what it wants.
I have been single many years and I am just now really considering letting someone into my world. I want someone who has time to devote to me and my two boys. I just moved back to Alabama from Texas. I am trying to take in as much as possible. Everything from water activities to hiking, live music, good food, historical and art events too. My son will be with me at all times unless he is with his dad in Texas. I do not want to expose him to different men...therefore, I have to be very careful and picky. So, if I do not respond, please don't take it too personally. I am also not one that spends all my time on the computer or looking for someone. I just live life and have faith that when the timing is right it will happen, and if it doesn't , that's ok too.
I understand the need to talk on the phone. With that said, I am not a good phone conversationalist. So please do not ask for my number. I will let you know if I would like for it to go there. I need to have time on the computer first to sort through the BS, and I much prefer meeting for a cup of coffee because body language says much more than words. Once I am interested in someone, I do like frequent communication, as long as it is at appropriate times.
I never thought I would be the one that would write such a lengthy profile but after experimenting with this type of dating I realize how important it is to be clear....:)
BTW...Please do not post a chest picture. I don't care how good it looks...I will delete you!

Meet someone special from United States. Hi there! I'm a funloving honest woman, looking for that one last man that's looking for a real relationship and not just a one night stand! If that's all you looking for keep looking! Want to know about me ? Just ask.

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