Date men and women from United States. I'm very down to earth. I am compassionate and friendly I tend to attract people without trying and cultivate long lasting friendships. A strong sense of allowing others to experience their choices affords me the freedom from over exposure to their lives. Balance in work and home is important to me ,I love kids and my job and presently i am away here in Manila-Philippines for a Project, stressful but satisfying..I can achieve this valuable trait. Like everyone else, I have my life, my experiences, and the lessons learned. I have dreams, desires, wants and needs. What I don't need is a partner in life that tries to change me - ask me what you need, what you like and let me free to gift it or not - don't keep things in, say the small things before they get big and we can't deal with them.
Let's make agreements and deal instead of living with unspoken expectations about the other. By the way I don't read minds.... no really... I DON'T; so if you think its not as romantic if you have to tell me something you'd love or want, then we won't hit it off. Communication is dealing in reality, giving and receiving, meeting halfway on the bridge of relationships. Once you get there you'll find someone who is honest, gentle, honest, ethical, generous of himself. Do I have faults, yes I can proscratinate at times, I have to push myself to get started and once started you can't stop me. Besides, eveything that bugs you will be a fault... to you, but we can talk about it and if the feelings are worth it... wait and see what I can do to please. I am very serious when needed, but I love to laugh and act silly when I can. I have unlimited Text on my phone so leave me ur number or mail addy coded and i will get back to you as i am not always on this site.
I like cooking, as a lone chef, as a co-chef, as a helper... I love the little quiet out of the way restaurants with great food and good wine. I like to cycle, the sound of the water cascading or the ocean, the feel of wet sand, the evening setting sun, basically feeling relaxed. I would love to meet a woman comfortable of her age, taking care of her looks but not superficial, intellectual, likes to talk about all sorts of things, listen and talk, and be able to be both serious and independent, but able to let go and cuddle up, allow herself to be protected and cuddled, to be caring and cared for, voices her desires and listens to mine, someone who loves herself enough to love and accept being loved... knowing we both deserve it.
There is much that i could add and say, but if you're not curious by now, why should I bother you any more... and if you are curious, imagine what else you may discover if you write to me... you have nothing to lose, none of us do... Hope to read you soon if your reading here is has felt like a bit of a mirror of yourself and a little something new you want to know more of. If interested send me a note.
Meet a soulmate from United States. just looking for friendship first then we will go from there . just a plain simple minded person.looking for someone with basic things i enjoy doing .you dont have to be perfect just respect me and ill respect you . dont contact me if you have kids . i dont run a nursery .im a plain desent man that just enjoys the simple things in life .if you live out of usa im not interested