Date men from United States / California / Vacaville, 27 year old

Date a soulmate from Vacaville, United States. The first thing people say to me is, "how tall are you?," and i'm starting to run out of clever responses. I'm easy going, and I have a sarcastic sense of humor.
I like old things because they have a story behind them. I'm a sucker for a good story, my favorite story is from the wheel of time series. If you have heard of it, then I don't need to explain why it's so great. If you haven't heard of it you are really missing out.
I used to be obese, and I really didn't like the feeling. So I've changed my diet, my attitude, and my exercise habits and I'm much healthier that I used to be. I've lost over 70 lbs and only have a little bit left to go before I reach my goal. I didn't lose this weight for anyone else but myself, but I do want to point it out because I think a healthy lifestyle is important.
I have a 5 year old son, who I love very much, but I don't get to see as often as I wished. I love kids, but it would take a very special person to make me go through diapers again.
I'm looking for someone who wants someone in their life, but doesn't need it, someone who can be completely independent but chooses to depend on someone. Someone who can hold a conversation with a complete stranger, and not dwell so much on what everyone else thinks.