Date men from United States / California / Modesto, 28 year old

Date a soulmate from Modesto, United States. Just so you know, I'm not a member...yet. So I can only wink. But if you message me or wink back, I will know and then I can have more incentive to join :)
My name is Manuel and I think of myself as a motivated person who is determined in what he wants to do with life. I am an analytical guy always striving to become a better person. Sometimes I may analyze too much but in the end, I believe I'm better off that way than not. I am in denial about being somewhat of a geek. I love being outdoors and meeting new people, making new friends. I enjoy all types of music and like the dance. I've been told I can be a great listener and communicator. Other than that, everyday it's the same story for me as I try to balance everything I am fortunate to have: family, friends, and my career among others. Just go out, have FUN and enjoy life to its fullest. I have always believed almost every option you have or don't have, is a consequence of your decisions. You are the biggest obstacle to yourself and what you want to do.
I am looking for a mature woman who enjoys and appreciates the little things in life. One that I can experience life with, whether it's good or bad. Someone who can see things through and doesn't run away or give up easily. I am looking for that best friend I can not only call my partner in crime but partner in life. Might sound cliche but I am one of those guys that will only get married to a best friend. Trust and communication are KEY and make the strongest foundation for building any relationship. It takes time to get there but I promise the juice, is worth the squeeze. Haha that I know that and that's what she said ;)
I’m really good at let's see, here is a quick list:
- Listener/communicator: Already mentioned above
- Computer/Tech stuff: I majored in it so I sure hope so
- Games: Many board, video, card, puzzle you name it...except some sports.
- Billiards: Playing in a league doesn't mean you are good but in my case, just above average. Challenge?
- Chess: Eh, the geek comes out to play sometimes
- Driving: I can get around pretty fast with some nice handling skills. Borderline dangerous sometimes with flawless parking
- Sense of Direction: I think I do anyway
- Keeping calm: Even in the toughest situations, I tend to be calm. You have to think quick sometimes and the best way to do that, is to stay calm.
- Honesty: is my best policy. If you want my opinion, I will give it to you even if you don't like it. But when you do ask, be sure to be able to take it. I will try my best for it not to sound mean but sometimes there is little I can say to make it sound better. I am this way because this is what I expect from you. If you don't like how things are going, just say so no matter what is at stake. I am strong enough to take it as long it is well reasoned or there are facts to support your stance.
...and the best for last...
- Sarcasm: Oh yeah! I don't even have to say anything sometimes. Just a look or gesture is enough. I try to make things have something you can laugh at behind them and this is a good way to do just that. I am always making jokes. If you know me, you would know that the last thing I want to do to anyone is hurt them in any way. I do test the limits sometimes but smiling or laughing about things is just healthy and a good therapy. However, I DO know when to be serious and when I might have gone too far for some people and I promise I will apologize. I always try to get to know people to know when I can and can't make a joke, so the more I know you, the more you may just lol, lmao, haha.(A little longer list than I wanted. I promise I'm not conceded)
You're a good candidate if you have:
- a good sense of humor (Dish it and take it)
- a profile to read and look at
- a tendency to be active (dancing, hiking, sports)
- money and would like to be my suga mama ;) (kidding!)
- read all this...
now I've hit my character lim