Date women from United States / California / Camarillo, 38 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. My friends would best describe me as affectionate, ambitious, strong work ethic, charismatic, dependable social lite.
Right now I'm looking to meet people...I'm new to this whole thing. Eventually, I'd like to meet someone to share some of my intersts and be willing to share theirs or some of them with me. Communication, compassion, honesty, and his own opinion. Emotional security or the ability to do so once past hurts are left behind. Someone who lives each day to the fullest, but loves the downtime between. Understanding.