Date men from United States / Arkansas / Menifee, 41 year old

Date single man from United States. Well, my last about me was rather long and probably too forthcoming at this point. Therefore, I hope you enjoy the condensed down version while being expressive about me.
I am open, honest, and real. I have a great sense of humor—at least I like to think I do; and you can be the judge of that. I am patient, affectionate and loving and more importantly looking for a long-term committed relationship with someone that I can spend the rest of my life with—where I cannot wait to get home from work and see you and hate for us to depart in the morning. I understand, not afraid to/of compromise and understand what it takes to be in a relationship along with give and take. I am an advocate of communication and active listening. I enjoy cooking and fine dining as well as good food prepared by others. I am currently furthering my education and while I do spend the majority of my time between works and studying, I do make time for other things in my life such as friends, family and you..should we be a “match.” :-)
I am looking for someone that is affectionate, down to earth, easy going and to talk too, understands give and take, is not very judgmental, will enjoy my company and that can be there through thick and thin, a lady who has my back and knows that I have hers. I would prefer you to be over the party/club scene, that you want and looking for a serious long-term relationship. It would be great if you are comfortable in an evening gown/dress for dinner, a show, etc., as you are in jeans, sweats, etc., for cuddling up to watch a movie on a Saturday night.

Meet someone special from United States. Can't figure out how to delet my account. But met a wonderful woman and I am now off the market, sorry. Thank you match?
Hi there. I live in Menifee and work in Riverside. Im a cop, so that can be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on how you feel about cops. I have two boys (6 and 3). I have my boys 49% of the time and there mother has them the other 51%. Kids dont scare me, but girls do, I get wrapped around their fingers.
I like to work with wood, Love to play poker and go to the casino. Like shooting guns and love eating at nice restarants. like the out doors and love camping in the back yard with my boys.
Just out of a 6 year marrage so im behind the dating curve, but still a family man at heart, not a player and dont want to be. Like going to bars with someone not going, in hopes of leaving with some one.
I was raised by a single mom so I like pulling out chairs and opening doors for a lady. I have a BA in business, put myself through college after the Marine
Corps, and while working full time as a Cop. Dont use my degree but did not want my kids to think it was ok for them not to go to college because I didn't.
Im an A type personality but with no expections and totaly none controlling.
Like to treat a woman like a lady so if you think all the jerks out there are cool and confident, well there not. There just jerks, again not me. I like to open doors and pull out chairs.
I loved being married so my end end end game, would be that or a relationship close to marrage, if your wild enough to keep me interested and not too young (30 or over) and not too old (under 48) we can talk. I would prefer a woman who already has kids, so that you can understand that they come first, plus I dont want anymore of my own.
P.S.
Anyone want a baby rat? Bought my boys two MALE rats two months ago and found 11 baby rats in the cage the other day. Im so going to talk to the lady at the pet store. I don't think they are both males anymore.