Date men from United States / Arkansas / Winchester, 41 year old

Date a man from United States. Hello, I hope this finds you and yours well. Ladies, if you have never been told this before, or a man in your past didn't share this with you, please allow me to then....There is absolutely nothing more attractive about a woman than her confidence. A woman that can laugh and smile just because the mood strikes her? Wow, that is the type of lady I wish to be in my life.
If I may, just a few things about myself. I am a single father to three girls (10, 8, and 6), who just bought my first house (no time like the present at 41 yrs old lol) I am well versed at all things Hello Kitty and have been the recipient of more than a few daddy makeovers, lol.
I enjoy anything that has to do with the outdoors, especially in and around water. I would love to get my scuba certification as well as learn to paddle board. I am originally a Southern California boy who has come home to retire in the French Valley, I grew up surfing, water skiing etc, so I am part fish I think. I love live music! Music at a bar, in the park, at a concert... anyplace where people can get together and enjoy themselves and relax. I am an avid golfer (as in I own clubs and I know which direction the ball ought to travel..), recreation sports (I have played for year on a traveling softball team, but that was a few yrs back in California)
I am hoping to find a woman to be a part of my life who is compassionate to understand love, smart enough to understand my semi sarcastic wit, ambitious enough so not to allow "life's roadblocks" to deter them from their aspirations. I have mine and I only want that certain lady to achieve hers as well.
I have done the "bar thing", the "party guy thing", the "divorced guy thing", I am saying that now I want to do the "happy because I am at a place in my life where I smile without thinking about it guy thing" (That HAS to be some sort of grammatical error! lol) I honestly just want to enjoy the life I have, try to improve the lives of those around me and be the type of man my little girls one day would want to marry.. to those of you who have taken time to read this, I hope you the best in your search for happiness and companionship, take care!