Date women from United States / Arkansas / Harrisburg, 32 year old

Date a woman from United States. I am pretty shy however, my friends would disagree. I do talk a lot when I know someone. It's just the first meeting that I'm shy.
I have two kids and they are my life. I don't have time for someone that is a player or is just looking for a one night stand. I am done with guys that are jerks. I want someone that is a true gentleman. I am not a "diva" but I do expect to be treated like a queen. I do not want someone that needs someone to take care of them. I love taking care of people but I also want someone to take care of me.