Date women from United States / Arkansas / Fair Oaks, 54 year old

Date someone special from Fair Oaks, United States. I want a man who has alot of interests that intersect with mine but a few of his own. I like spending time together but not every waking minute outside of work. I like free thinkers and questioners. I want an overlap in politics too - tried the opposites match and I don't agree with that statement!
Would like someone with a sense of humor but who can switch to serious if needed (knows when to turn it off).
I'm looking for a long-term relationship but if I find friends along the way that's all the better!