Date men from United States / Arkansas / Bethel Heights, 39 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. Ok first lets get this straight!!!..... Men spend more time wondering what women want from them than most women would believe. The stereotype about men suggests that we (MEN) are unthinking uncaring oafs who mostly think about sex and sports. While there is some truth to our obsession with physical love and physical competition, I am much more layered than this ? as suggested by what I really want in a woman (While no one could possibly answer this question with anything resembling a complete answer!!) well here i go.... Someone who love going out and staying in/ loves being around family (mine or hers)/ Trust/ Honesty/ Drama free/ Sense of Humor/ Ability to share deeply with their partner/ Playful/ Friendly/ And most of all......NOT FAKE!!!...well about me now...I am in a up band called ..One Voice.. and the person that is willing to be a part of me will be an equal part not dead weight..sorry for saying that but I like to do more than sit at home......if you are interested then shoot me a wink....