Date men and women from United States / Alabama / Vandiver, 41 year old

Date people from Vandiver, United States. I find that I am attractive to petite women. This can be short and petite or taller and thin, small frame. I do like short women. I am usually attracted to brunettes mostly but blondes and red heads often catch my eye. That's just me. As for personality, I like women that are very sweet and like to communicate. I must be attracted to a woman physically. She doesn't have to be a model, I just need to find her attractive. Then she has to be kind and sweet, if she's a "B" then I don't care how hot she is. And I very much dislike women that think they are "all that". Ultimately beauty comes from within and outer beauty will fade. We are all superficial and outward appearance is the first thing we see, but not what really matters the most.
As you may guess, I don't get many replies as I don't have a photo up. In complete honesty, I do not like taking photos and avoid if possible, nor do I like posting photos. If you think that is weird then, so be it. Despite the fact that I'd love to find "the one", and as much as I joke about being desperate, I am not. I'd say over all I'd beat out about 90% of the guys if someone was keeping score. Yes, I admit that I have some idiosyncrasies, but I have excuses for each one. :) I like to have dreams and try my best to achieve them. If you don't have dreams then find a boring guy. I keep things interesting and do my best to have off the wall ideas as often as possible.
I exercise very hard. This consist mostly of heavy weight training. I keep my diet relatively clean and I do take, herbs, supplements, etc. So if you think trying to stay young and healthy is weird and that growing old gracefully is natural, then look somewhere else. I do some weird things trying to keep the clock from ticking. And I'd say it's working. I'm of the opinion that quality is better than quantity. i.e. If I were to do something that took 10 years off of my life but improved it dramatically then it would be better than having that 10 years of bad life. Got it?
I like to do things outdoors. I want to learn to scuba...and I would love to have a cool lady to learn with me. Someone that is in shape and can keep up. Although I'd still be very protective...it's just me.
No pic usually equals no response...but I have had a few women take a chance. One I met on this website, we hit it off and I believe we were soul mates, but she became ill and I lost her. Otherwise I sure wouldn't be sitting here doing this again.
I'm looking to get married...sooner rather than later. I have the means to easily support a family (read between the lines). I want children, no drama, just a nice wife, great sex, communication, and a couple a good kids. Also, I am conservative in most of my beliefs. So if you are liberal, that could be a issue...I'm willing to listen but I'm hard line on most of my beliefs.
GLTA