Date women from United States / Alabama / Newton, 31 year old

Date someone special from Newton, United States. Right now I am looking for friendship. I have made some bad choices in men and would like to actually find a man that likes me as a friend before starting a relationship. Most of the time I am easy going and a shy country girl. I am down to earth with a dry sense of humour . I enjoy going out for an grown up night every once in a while, have a drink watch a movie. I also like riding 4wheeler through the woods and hear my kids giggle. Simple is me. I am not real good with groups of people, I usually do ok one on one but have been told I am too quiet but once you get to know me I like to talk about my kids, family, anything you want really. I love it when a man can make me laugh and feel at ease. Really I dont know what kind of man I am looking for. I am 30 years old with a 7yr old girl and 3yr old boy and they are my life, they come first before anyone including me. I can tell you what I DONT want in a man: someone who has bad temper, man that thinks everything is a joke, drinks too much, a man with no work ethic, no goals, cant make decisions and the world and all problems revolve around him, everyone has problems and everyone deserves to be listened to maybe not drama queens or pathological liars... ok even them on some days. I do want someone who wants a friend and lover, someone that is sweet and maybe old fashioned flowers wont hurt a thing, maybe not so touchy but likes to hold hands and a kiss or hug in public is not illegal someone who is happy with me for me, someone who wants to respect me as I do them, treat me like you want to be treated.... well if you want to be beat with whips count me out.