Date women from United States / Alabama / Homewood, 31 year old

Date someone special from Homewood, United States. I am always joking around-once I warm up to you. I love anything that's pretty funny, but at the same time, I'm in hot pursuit of some major goals. I've always been very independent, which makes me look kind of country at times. I'm not exactly sure what it is that I'm looking for, but I'm hoping NOT to find a stalker.
I really hate to be rude, but I don't and shouldn't have anything in common with anyone younger than I am or over 40. I will not have anything to do with any one who is married/separated or has children. Sorry, but I wouldn't even know how to respond in a conversation about baby momma issues. I do have a child, and that raises the question with men who are fathers as to why I won't date them. Well,among other reasons, I don't consider myself the Brady Bunch type.
I am not lonely or bored- in fact, I'm quite the opposite. I am looking for someone really special or nothing at all.
Really Special:
-came from a good family
-has been successful in accomplishing goals
-smart and serious
-funny
-will not go to strip clubs or hooters because he doesn't like skanks
-has certain family goals