Date women from United States / Alabama / Irvington, 51 year old

Date a woman from United States. I love to get aong with other people. I'm easy to talk to. I have this pet-peave about getting along with other people. My ideal mate I suppose, would love and appreciate myself, life and family. To have a loving, caring and romantic side to him, but know how to stick together and get thru difficult times when needed. I have a bad habit of spoiling the people around me,but wouldn't mind being spoiled every once in a while myself. I do have a realistic side to me, a quality certain people don't like. The world can be cruel and I like being prepared to tackle it head on as best as I can. I love to have fun and be silly, I am a very witty person and laughing is a part of my life. It helps me get thru the sad times to help me get back to a happy place in my heart. My children are growing up,my oldest has given me a beautiful grand daughter and another on the way, so I have to keep a positive attitude about being alone, Not!! I love the companionship of a man who can be my friend, lover, and everything else if the need arises. When I cry I love to be held sofly and told it wll be alright.When the right man comes along,loving him is no problem, and getting it in return would be great also. Conflict? I hate it, but not scared of it. Afterall, I am from Alabama!! My chidren mean alot to me, my girls have helped me thru some hard times. I wouldn't trade them nor my son for all the tea in China.I like keeping things simple and don't ask for alot I am greatful for what I have but......I like to PROGRESS not REGRESS. My health, kids and the materialistic things are not important unless I have someone to share them with. I have 3 brothers an 2 sisters and a Dad, I just recently lost my Mom,but she is in a better place and with that thought, it gets me thru. The bottom line is I am just a country girl from Alabama and entiled to happiness for a change when it comes to relationships.