Date women from United States / Alabama / Elrod, 30 year old

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I have two wonderful children that our my world. I was born and raised in Bryan, Texas. I moved to Tuscaloosa, Alabame about 7 years ago. I bought my first home in March and it was a pretty awesome feeling. I stay pretty busy with my kids and their activities, but still have time for that special someone when I meet them. I try to spend as much time outside with my kids.
I have some family that live in Alabama, but most of my family lives in Texas. My grandparents have 13 kids between them, so I come from a huge family, and there was never a dull moment growing up.
When I do not have my kids I am usually hanging out with my best friend. We both are single Mom's with kids around the same age. Our families do a lot together. Every Sunday afternoon we have a kickball game against each other.
I'm looking for a down to earth guy that understands I am a Mom first. The person does not have to have kids, but that would be a plus. I think communication is important in a relationship, so want to find someone that it's easy to talk to. Want to be able to laugh and be myself with who I am with. I am not sure if I want to have more kids. I am torn on that question. The best answer I can give; it really just depends if that is in the best intrest for the already exsisting family.