Date women from United States / Alabama / Dozier, 33 year old

Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. My greatest accomplishment in my life is my two kids they are everthing to me. I have taken care of them nearly all alone their whole lives. I will not ever put anyone before them. I have to have someone in my life that understands that. I don't drink, smoke or do any drugs of any kind. I can't be with someone that does, I've learned the hard way that it won't work if one does and the other doesn't. I don't go out that often since I am the sole caretaker of my kids. I don't miss it they make me laugh all the time. I'm not a bar hopper, personally going out to bars all the time is just asking for trouble. Going as a couple to have a good time is different. I think that my best friend would say that I'm loyal, she should we've been friends since the 8th grade. I know she would say that she could trust me with anything, we have no secrects. I can't pinpoint one thing that makes me smile it's kinda hard to narrow that down. I just want to find someone that believes that you work for what you have. That lying to someone can leave permanent scars, unfortunatly that never really go away. Yes, the truth always comes out. That when you find someone you stay loyal to that one person you can't just play with them like a yoyo. You can't change people unless that's what they want out of life, try your best to take the bad with the good. Help one another when you can sometimes the smallest gestures mean more than a big planned out ordeal. It's understandable to get mad at times everyone does, but don't take it out on objects that you see. I am a firm believer that a man never hits a woman, yes woman shouldn't try to a boxer either. No violence at all. I think that respect is something that should be shown fairly between two people. Trust is something that is earned it's hard to just give it on blind faith.I'm speaking from personal experiences, I'm not perfect but I would like to have someone in my life that makes me happy and that I could make happy.