Date women from United States / Alabama / Bessemer, 29 year old

Date a girl from Bessemer, United States. I am pretty easy going and laid back. I love to smile and have fun. Laughing is a big part of my life.
I work hard, I own my own house, I own my own car.
I worked my way through two college Degree's and now I have one of the best jobs there is. I'm finally at a stable point in my life where I can settle down and focus on the future.
Being the first person in my family to graduate was one of the best things that has ever happened to me.
I am very big on family. Well some of it. My mom and I are very close.
I'm looking for someone who is an adult, who likes to have fun, who works, who has his own car, and isn't expecting a sugar momma.
I am not here for a sexual encounter. I'm not a ho nor do i plan on being one.
I am tired of the high school games people play. I don't like drama and I refuse to have it in my life.
I have never been married and I don't have any children..However I would like to some day get married and have children.
Men with children do not bother me. I actually would prefer to date a man with children. How a man treats his children says a lot for him.

Meet single girl from Bessemer, United States. I'm sure we are all thinking the same thing - "I never thought I would do this!?!". But I don't really think finding someone in a bar/club scene is going to turn into something worth pursuing long term. I'm sure there are those exceptions, but I have yet to encounter one. lol It seems everything in my life at the moment is lining up except in the relationship aspect. I admit I haven't put that much effort into it in the past year or two; but now that I have my "ducks in a row" I am ready and able to devote more time and energy to a relationship. Btw I'm looking to date not 'hook up'. So here it goes......
I am
dependable (I took to heart what my Dad has always said, you're only as good as your word), honest, sincere, funny, sarcastic, a book worm, responsible, intelligent, positive thinker, stubborn, confident, UA alum & fan, working on my fitness (just joined a gym)
I can be
unorganized, forgetful, a multi-tasker, spontaneous, creative, witty, a grammar nazi…
I am not
a poser/wannabe, skinny, fake, druggie, lazy,
Vices
Pepsi, full body massages, vacations.....
TV shows
Criminal Minds, Bones, Law & Order shows, Cash Cab, Big Bang Theory, Holmes on Homes (recent HGTV addict), Dirty Jobs with Mike Rowe (I have a secret, guess it's not so secret now, crush on him), random Comedy Central shows.....
Movies
Anything but scary movies unless you are willing be my bed buddy and keep the monsters away lol
Music
I love music period! Adele, Brandi Carlile, Better than Ezra, Coldplay, Kings of Leon, Live, Noisettes, Sara Bareilles, Aerosmith, Live, Journey, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Jimmy Buffett.....the list goes on and on......
Turn Ons
humorous, stability, honesty, dark hair, baseball pants.....
Turn Offs
victim mentality (like the world owes you), all connecting body hair (everyone has unfortunately stood behind the guy in the Wal-Mart checkout line wearing a "wife beater" with the wildly untamed and unruly neck, shoulder, arm, underarm, back, chest and throat hair), drugs, judgmental....

Date someone special from Bessemer, United States. I'm a 29 year old African-American female just looking for a friend first and then possibly something serious. I believe any good relationship starts out with a great friendship. I'm a great listener(listen with out feedback unless asked), I love to laugh and make laugh, I'm very trusting, honest, very god-fearing and just a laidback,down for whatever type lady. I'm looking for someone who is honest, trustworthy, have a great personality, a love for god, and a great sense of humor. Someone who will just be who they are and let what will come as it may. Because I'm such a laidback chick to me a perfect date would be a candle light dinner for 2, a little cuddling on the couch watching a movie or a football game, laughter, & passion. Everything else will take care of itself. " WHEN PRIDE COMES, THEN COMES DISGRACE, BUT WITH HUMILITY COMES WISDOM" PROVERBS 11:2