Date women from United States / California / Santa Monica, 44 year old

Date someone special from Santa Monica, United States. I'm definitely at a point in my life where I view life as a great adventure.....I try to live in the present, get something out of each day and not stress too much about the future, rather just let it unfold. I'm finding that it's not where we end up, but rather the journey itself we gain the most from....I am passionate about everything I do and would hope to find someone who views life with the same enthusiasm as I do.
Intelligence and quest for knowledge are sexy as are honesty and warmth. I know that may sound cliche but it's true that what we are on the inside is radiated on the outside and nothing is as inviting as a man(person) who is at peace with him/herself. That is the sexiest quality in a mate.
I hope to find someone someday that appreciates these same values but who can also introduce me to additional and as yet unexplored aspects of life.....Someone who loves animals, art, music, laughter, their friends and family, the outdoors etc....... Ideally, he is confident in being his own person and is also supportive of me in being my own as well.
PS----Please don't just give me a superficial "wink".....it won't be returned and PSS- I want to experience having or adopting a child so please only contact me if you are open to that too. Thanks!

Meet a woman from Santa Monica, United States. Happy, optimistic, fun, loyal to a fault, curious, spirit-filled, giving, hardworking, athletic, hopeful, gregarious, spontaneous, sexual, soulful, loving, attentive, extremely generous, helpful, kind, adventurous, lucky, affectionate, blessed, active, honest, strong. I'm all about being happy and that's really easy for me!
no drama allowed, please.
I’m looking for someone who will reinforce my best self and more. A man who can say "I'm so in love with you" It’s really easy, just looking for a man who loves and adores me! Which will bring out my best self to love and adore him right back. My mission in life is “to have the freedom to create joy-filled experiences for those I love”.
I love to celebrate every Holiday and bring family and friends together, travel the world, cuddle for hours, eat out, eat in, connect with people, kiss "Him" passionately as much as possible, laugh, take a stroll after dinner hand in hand chatting or in silence, but most importantly make my man extremely happy. I love being in a relationship!!! Can't wait to think about someone else, sooo excited! My thought process in life is how can I make life better for myself and those around me, and I love doing it!!!! IРІР‚в„ўm looking for extraordinary. Living everyday to its fullest, experiencing life. Loving someone in a way I never experienced before, I want to believe in the magic of Love and have a ton of fun.
Make me laugh, make me quiver, make me proud, make me blush, make me feel safe and protected and trust me I will make you feel like you are the luckiest man alive.
I worked extremely hard on myself to clear the way to be emotional aware of who I am which will make me an amazing partner/wife/lover/friend/step mother. It's so my time right now. All is fabulous with me.
ok, so I feel awful about this but everyone told me I had to do it this way for search engine reasons. Ugh. Because I want to live my life in integrity I must ask you "please forgive me" for saying I'm 48 in March 2012 and I never lied about my age till I joined this crazy site. Most recent picture is my profile 12/2011 Again my apologies I just wasn't ok with the white lie.
Also if you are looking for someone in their 20's you are not what I'm looking for..... Thanks. XOXOJB

Date a soulmate from Santa Monica, United States. I'm active, vivacious, sensual, adventurous, full of wonder, well-traveled, teacher, and forever student of life. I love to play and have fun...so so important in filling my life.
I am interested in exploring a relationship, a life partner I cant imagine a love without laughter, adventure and a deep sensual connection. To me: Decisiveness is alluring. Chivalry is sexy and old fashion men melt me...
I will not respond to a wink...because I'm a bit old fashion.
Diana ox

Meet someone special from United States. I am a fun loving, flirty girl with a slight edge. I am in love with life and all it has to offer. I enjoy hanging out with family and friends and enjoying life. I think life is all about making memories, I am looking for my best friend, lover, and partner in crime. Someone that is easy going, and drama free. Having kids is a plus, since I am a big one at heart. If I do not respond to your message, please do not be offended, I am a picky girl who knows what she wants. I like a Latin and European flavor...FYI

Date a woman from United States. Recently relocated for my job from Atlanta to Santa Monica. Traveling is a major part of my existence so it has been difficult to get out and meet people. So, far I am digging California for the hiking, tennis and awesome weather.

Meet a soulmate from United States. Hello, if you want to date a nice, ambitious, fun, playful, intelligent, active girl
then all you have to do is ask me out! ;-) Seriously, don't you find it hard to write
about yourself? Let's see, to start, some of my favorite activities include beach
walks, traveling, dancing, hiking, listening to music and going to movies. I like to be
outdoors, in the water, boating, jet skiing, swimming, tropical vacations and weekend
getaways.
Family, friends, kids and helping others are very important to me. You will find me
loving, open minded, easy going and willing to try new adventures. I do want to share my life with one very special person. You are strong, intelligent and have a great spirit. You really know how to love and laugh. You're protective, supportive and
emotionally available. And you must love to cuddle!
I'm lucky to have a successful career, a beautiful home in Santa Barbara and great
friends, just missing my soulmate, my best friend. Are you out there? Let's meet and
have some fun together. My photos are recent, within a year. Take care and I wish you all good luck in your search.

Date someone special from California, United States. It's been said that we are moved by either inspiration or desperation-I am here unquestionably for the former. I am not looking for a man who can fill a hole-in my heart or my schedule-both are fairly full as it is. What I am interested in is a man of such an extraordinary character, such an incredibly high caliber level of play that we can create experiences unimaginable together.
Love, God and sex play key roles in my life-I offer reverence to all three and handle the hearts, souls and bodies of those I encounter with great care.
I am a super foxy illuminated deeply feminine power mamma (My family is from Sicily, need I say more?)
I am not looking "for" something-it's a someone and when that person arrives the what will be clear. On the way there, I frankly just love men. I do. Have since I was little. And I have a good thermometer- I can be simple all the way to intense depending on what feels good.
I have a, lets say, radically unconventional career that falls more into the category of vocation-I am a worlds expert on my topic. I am also an author. Because it is a vocation there is not a minute that I am not immersed. At the same time the refresh button of enjoyment is key to balance and I plan to be doing this for a long time, so I am not ever frenzied. I know how to stop activity and put my attention on what is important: human connection.
I have a special affinity for black men. Extremely tall a plus. Will not be turned away for tatoos either. Self knowledge is key. And the capacity to let go: fall in love, laugh, play hard...whatever and then come back to being friends.
I know that no pic is a drag. Ask me and I am happy to send you one.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I'm a passionate, fun-loving woman who is fearless in the way I live and love. I was born in Ohio, worked and studied in New York City, and have now relocated to sunny California. Okay, so since this writing-about-yourself thing isn’t as easy as it looks, I’m relying on my friends to help a little with this part. I am fiercely loyal, sometimes to a fault (I’m a fan of the NY Mets and LA Kings, although my Kings came through this year!) The simple beauty of a moment can move me to tears, whether in a movie, a song, or life…and, no, it doesn’t mean I’m sad. I take an almost fiendish delight in visiting the dancing fountains at The Grove…there’s something about the exuberance of a child watching choreographed water! I believe in the power of partnership, communication, and loving someone unconditionally.
I am looking for a meaningful, committed relationship...a lover, best friend, and partner in crime! Someone who is kind, compassionate toward others, loving, loyal, passionate about life, has a sense of humor, doesnРІР‚в„ўt take himself too seriously, stands up for the little guy, and loves fearlessly. Someone whose strengths will compliment my weaknesses, and vice versa. Someone who will not mind that IРІР‚в„ўm likely to drive him crazy once in a while. :)
What makes me happy? Loving someone unconditionally and being loved that way in return; having someone's back and knowing he has mine; dancing to music, whether it's playing in the room or simply in your soul; freedom to truly be myself with another person and he with me; having a shared vision for our life together that includes raising a family...

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Keeping this quite brief so here goes~
I am a sarcastic Brit with a kind honest heart. I have a 16 year old daughter I am hugely proud of. I have a great circle of friends that keep me sane and happy in LA. I work as a freelance hair and make up artist I love my job and the freedom it gives me, and am thankful for all the places it has taken me to. But now I am looking for someone who I can spend time with and travel with too ( but with out my make-up brushes!!)
I am looking for someone with east coast humour, the manners of a southerner mixed with a dash of west coast ease. No b s
please, honesty goes a long way with me!

. I've lived in Santa Monica for the better part of 12 years, and love being here. That said, I'm open and adventurous, and would be open to calling another city home... About me? I have a beautiful daughter and love being a mom. While I'm probably done having my own kids, my heart is fully open to yours, and I would even be open to adopting (especially out of foster care). I am easy going but strong willed and determined; independent, but love the company, support, and affection of others, ready to voice opinions about things that are important, whether consequences are personal or global, and like to sing and dance--- in the privacy of my cozy home. (bonus points if you will take dance lessons with me, or just teach me yourself). I seek harmony but don't shy away from differences in opinion (and don't see the two as mutually exclusive). In fact, I tend to embrace differences as the elements that make life interesting. I have friends from many cultural, religious, and socio-economic backgrounds. Family, friends and community are important to me. My friends are family and my family are the best of friends . I love cooking and entertaining... the kitchen is such a happy place :-) I love hiking and doing almost anything outdoors. My daughter and I have rediscovered camping, a new favorite. I love my career, music, writing, red wine, blue skies, chocolate. I love pampering (and being pampered), dressing up, dressing down, going out, staying in; silliness, playfulness, and good conversation. I enjoy and appreciate the journey of life without total focus on the next step or end goals. While i don't need someone to "complete me," I do think life is more fun and fulfilling when shared with someone else- a best friend, soulmate, playmate. I am adventurous and inquisitive by nature, always open to experiencing new things. I believe that the world is as open as your mind is open to it, and would love to meet someone open to exploring all the world has to offer. There is so much you just can't describe in an essay--- why not just talk sometime instead? I love meeting all types of people, but typically click with those who have a fun sense of humor (including being able to laugh at yourself on occasion ;-), a realistic sense of self, have a passion for their work but a greater passion for their personal endeavors; and people who are generally (and more importantly- genuinely) happy. I hope to meet someone who has a big heart, a devoted curiosity (or at least a willingness) for trying new things, from the most mundane to somewhat insane. I'm attracted to people who are kind, active (mind and body), content (but not complacent), confident (without being arrogant) have self respect as well as respect for others.

. I possess all the character traits of the Pisces; strengths and flaws alike. I am looking for a true love connection with a Man who is ready for a LTR.
I am romantic, understated, affectionate, patient, gentle, soft-spoken, sweet, sensitive, sensual, intelligent, honest, and fiercely loyal.
I can enjoy myself equally at a rock concert or the opera. I am as comfortable in a cabin in the woods as in a luxury hotel room. I am not into the bar scene. I love candlelight dinners, kissing in the moonlight, and walking on the beach.
I believe that the art of courtship is very important to seduction. The little things, in romance, are as important as the grand gestures.
True love leads to developing a lifelong friendship with our mate. It grows through caring for each other where each partner freely gives of himself. True love grows as partners learn how to meet the needs and desires of the other. It matures through life experiences shared together.

. My heart is full of love! Family, home and friends are of the utmost importance to me. To me life is about happiness and appreciating the simple pleasures in life. I adore children and look forward to being a mom! Overall, I'm as comfortable in leather as I am in lace, but am still the type of girl you would love to bring home to mom.
The pictures of me are all current and the kids are a couple of my adorable nieces and those are not my dogs. :)
An ideal relationship to me is deep, loving, harmonious, and passionate - an intimate communion - fulfilling on every level. It is one where we embrace our differences and work towards bringing out the beauty in each other, lifting each other up and working towards helping each others light shine as brightly as possible. It is one which parallels the precepts in the book "The Invitation".
Communication, respect and honesty are the keys to making it work. Truly appreciating each other and recognizing the beauty in each other even when it's hard. It's easy to point the figure and place blame - it's about taking responsibility and being the change you want to see. Sacrifice of oneself to please each other is significant, while still being true to yourself. It requires a deep commitment to each other and the relationship to make it something truly wondrous! I've learned that happiness is not about being loved, but about loving someone else.
I'm looking for someone who will bring much light, love, laughter and fun to a relationship and recognize that to have a truly harmonious relationship takes dedication. I'm looking for a man who is willing to do what it takes to create an intimate communion - a truly deep connection. I'm looking for someone who will share life's sparkle. I am seeking the best, the brightest, the most wonderful partner - someone who will bring a smile to my face, make me laugh, and will appreciate all of who I am and all I have to offer.