Date women from United States / California / El Cajon, 44 year old

Date someone special from El Cajon, United States. i'm just a small town girl at heart looking for someone that wants to hang out and be in the moment. i love to be with my friends and family because they bring me so much happiness and would love someone that fits right in. i pride myself that i surround myself with greatness...
i'm not always a planner...i like to be a little impulsive. some days i just want to relax in my jammies all day, and others i can't sit still. you can find me at the local hole-in-the wall bar, disneyland, road trips, taking a cruise or relaxing by my pool. i like taking pictures...they are among the most important things i own...and i enjoy reading when i can (in a bubble bath with a glass of wine is the best!)
i work as a resource specialist and love what i do. i especially love the schedule of teaching...lots of holidays and the summer off! i hope someone can enjoy time off with me so we can travel and enjoy this beautiful country of ours. international travel scares me a little (but i'm not totally opposed), but there is so much i want to see in the good ol' usa!!
i am a pretty independent woman, but also enjoy companionship. i hope you can be confident and secure and want to laugh and have fun with me (and my friends and family!) let's enjoy our similarities but still celebrate our differences... i'm not perfect and will never claim to be, but i am big hearted and will be the best friend you will ever have.

Meet a soulmate from El Cajon, United States. I am hoping if you are taking the time to read ALL of this after viewing my photos and are smiling, then there might be a good chance that you are the man of my dreams... I am a Mom of a 28 year old young man that has brought joy into my life with a 5 yr.old grandson. I also have a 26yr old daughter and a 21 yr.old son. I have been a single parent my childrens whole lives. I love playing the roll of Mom and Dad because things are my way. and there is no one else they can run, to say yes when I said no! I have raised them financially ,emotionally, and physically all by myself!. I am not looking for a Father figure, just a friend and positive role model. I am a massage therapist and HHP practitioner. I love my work physically and spiritually. . I am a people person and like to help others as well as people watch. I eventually want to get into some kind of social working for troubled teens or children less fortunate. . I like comedy shows and I like the nightlife once in awhile to just let my hair down and have a good time. I also enjoy going to concerts...going to any type of MMA events. I am really into UFC cage fighting and am a proud sponsor for a few of the fighters!! I also enjoy football games and other sporting events. I like camping,bike riding,out on the lakes, going for drives,sight seeing and shopping. I also like quite times at home watching movies or just a good conversation over some nice music while snuggled up under the blankets or even a nice romantic walk down by the beach.. I like to travel and learn and see new things. I am very independent and always have been, so I would need a man that can deal with that as well as my personal space when I need it.I am looking for an honest, romantic, trustworthy man that doesn't play games or break hearts as a hobby.and is ready for LOVE!!... One with a sense of humor, would like to be my best friend as well as my lover. One that would rather communicate and talk things out and come up with an agreement on things.... Or if we can't, then just let it go and still go to sleep at night holding each other, instead our backs facing each other. Someone who is spontaneous and likes be around friends and family, as well as spending quality time with just me. Also a man that is happy with his work and is EMOTIONALLY stable, as well as financially. One able to take care of himself as well as an add-on family (my kids and I). Don't get me wrong, it takes two to support and make a happy and healthy life for everyone involved and I'm all for doing my part and building a LIFE together. I also like to spend time to myself to regroup (which we all need with life's stress) as well as time with my kids and there friends that call me mom. so I need someone that can understand that. If you think this is you please be honest with yourself and me about having the same ideal relationship in wanting to grow old together and let's see what happens. Those of you that are intrested in me JUST for the physical aspect need NOT to respond, I am not intrested in a one night stand or just a roll in the hay! There is more to me then that, I need a man that can focus in on me as a person and what I am all about inside and out. I do feel that it is important that he think's that I am sexy because I want that burning passion and desire to be noticed and wanted at all times to keep the kindle lit, but by the right man Please keep it real and be ready for a real and long lasting relationship if you are the one for me. I am confident in myself enough to put diffrent types of pics up to show you all diffrent ways of my being upfront, and keep them recent so that you know I will look the same if we ever meet.

Date a woman from El Cajon, United States. I am happy with most everything in my life. I lead a pretty charmed life.
I feel like I am a good catch for the right guy. I am smart, funny and super kind, giving (and forgiving). I am easy to get along with as long as you are too!!
I enjoy kayaking, gardening, bike riding at the beach, plays, festivals and traveling.. Anything fun or funny is good by me.
In search of: A man who is comfortable with himself, kind to others and has a great sense of humor. He should be handsome to me, but he does not have to be best looking guy in the world.
Must be a romantic and an excellent kisser! I like men who are playful, smart and interesting enough to hold a good conversation.. Adventurous and Spiritual and most importantly... Honest..
I am more of a doer than a typist so I will leave it at that. Hope to hear from you soon!

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am a no nonsense woman, looking for a great match...Isn't that why we are all here? I am accomplished, driven and strong, have my stuff together and I don't play games in the romance department. Looking to find a great man to share life with. I love to go out for a night on the town, or stay in with a good movie...I am comfortable dressing it up, or throwing on jeans and flops. I have a strong circle of family and friends- whom I love.
I have a strong desire to see new places and experience new things...Love to travel and spend time with the ones I love... Ready to see where this Match journey takes us?

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am an attractive, outgoing woman with a good sense of humor. I love to laugh! My sense of humor can be both silly and sarcastic. I entertain my coworkers on a daily basis with my unique perspective of how crazy the world is. I've been known to be the creative "ring leader" at work on more than one occasion.
I am loyal, compassionate (and passionate) and optimistic. I try to find the positive in all that life throws at me. I cherish my relationships with my family and friends. I am an attentive listener and a supportive friend. I am not into drama surrounding relationships. Life is too precious to waste with drama and negativity. If I want drama, I can just turn on the TV and watch a "reality" show.
I am interested in a man who enjoys laughter and is dependable. My ideal partner will value his friendships and relationships with his family members. My man should have interests outside of his dating relationship (i.e. buddies to hang out with, hobbies, etc.). I believe it is important that both partners "have a life" beyond themselves as a couple. This gives good balance to a relationship.
I have an 11 year old daughter whom I love with all my heart. She lives with me 50% of the time. She is quick to point out all the cute men she thinks I should date. The only snafu with this is the men are always 30 years old or younger. She tells me "so what, Mom". She doesn't understand the concept of "robbing the cradle" yet.
While I cherish the time I spend with my daughter and friends, I miss having a partner in my life. A person who has good moral character and integrity is important to me. You are only as good as the word you keep. If you have laughter, love, tenderness, trust and honesty to offer, then I'm yours.
I'm trying to keep this short but sweet (like me, although I'm not really short at 5'6" but I am a bit of a sweetie). It is challenging to describe yourself and what you are looking for in a partner in this type of forum. Meeting in person and feeling the chemistry is key in my book.
P.S. There is nothing more sensual to me than a slow dance.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I am very outgoing, I like to say what I think, I respect people and I like to be respected. Honesty is the number one turn on. I am very proud of what I do and what I have accomplished in life. I love my kids. I am looking for someone I can talk to about anything and have fun with. I think men should not judge women for how good we do in life and should not feel intimidated by it.