Date men from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 43 year old

Date a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. I'm a dad, entrepreneur, foodie, and traveler. I love golf and tennis and toes in the sand. I live well. I love to travel and play, but I must work hard to feel I've earned it. I'm into learning. Spelling matters. I want someone that's fun, but a little crazy, and can also just chill. I hate arguing over where to eat. I'm not a fan of complacency, laziness or settling. If you're going to do it, do it right, right? I'm a big fan of cooking, being healthy and being spontaneous, especially when it comes to hopping on an airplane. I work too much, but I make it to most of my sons games. I can often be found at airports just staring out the window, watching people or glued to my iPhone, iPad or MacBook. I seek love, just the rest. I'm not a party guy, but I love to eat great food at the bar. I love my children, more than my life. I've had my share of ups and downs. I smile through it all. I love my mother. I miss my father. My brother and sister are second only to my children. I want an amazing woman. One that I can be proud of and will support me and love my boys. (that's easy, they're amazing) You in?

Meet someone special from Santa Barbara, United States. A good conversation over a French breakfast with a beautiful sunrise in the background and all of it shared with someone very special. This is what I might call heaven on earth. I am a kind and sincere man who values the simple things in life and is looking to find a woman who appreciates them as well.
I am an educated and thoughtful man who loves to travel, especially to beautiful places like the Swiss Alps, France & London. I don’t have to travel far however to find what I love, the Big Sur & Santa Barbara beaches provide great beauty and wonderful places to walk, hike & enjoy sunsets.
My friends are very important to me; I enjoy spending time with them over coffee or a nice dinner out, often for Indian food, which I love. If you asked them about me they would likely say that I am charming & humble, it’s so kind of them to think of me that way, they’re a great group of people. I like to think of myself as a loyal & honest friend to them, at the very least that is what I strive for.
I love getting to know people, learning about where they came from & what drives them. I am open-minded, loving and sincere. I am comfortable talking with just about anyone & hope that I can find a woman who values kindness as much as she does fun.
I'm looking for a kind, generous woman who finds happiness in simple ways. An educated woman who likes good conversation and being creative, she respects herself and what she has to offer. She can be genuine and present in a relationship, whether it's being silly or being earnest. If you are looking for a well travelled, educated man to build a strong relationship with, please contact me; I would love to hear from you.

Date a man from Santa Barbara, United States. I'm a creative nut that spends too much time in his own head. I love to travel, near and far, and have had a very nomadic lifestyle over the past couple years. I like having a diverse group of friends and seek a diverse experience in life. Over the past few years, I closed my architectural practice in SB and traveled the country and world working with bamboo on large sculptural installations. I have also worked on projects for friends in both Thailand and Costa Rica, though have spent far more time of late in the latter.Last year I came back to the tribe in Santa Barbara to work on creative tree houses, one of which is currently published in the Summer issue of SB Seasons magazine. Since April, I'm back at a desk job for the first time in years, getting back into the swing of my profession and working with good friends with more real work than they can handle. Simply stated, I enjoy the simple life more than chasing dollars, live in the flow, trust in the journey as being the reward, and am more of an artist than a businessman. I am looking for someone to share the journey with, where ever it leads...
My perfect match is most likely someone that balances me...but off hand seems ideal if also either born overseas or with extensive travel experience, someone who comes from a good family that taught her etiquette, respect, love, and to treat people by the golden rule, and someone who sees a home in the suburbs as not the ideal dream to work towards...I'm generous with my time for others, I wish for the same in return...generally my thoughts on kids depends on who the Mom would be, as well as concerns for the planet we're passing onto them...physical attraction is very important, mental attraction is even more, passion is the most important...I don't cook all that much myself, so if she's a good cook, bonus...she must love animals (all species)...she needs to have a positive outlook and have some spunk to counter my detail oriented virgo tendencies...lastly, I want long term commitment through thick and thin, as my parents have been married for over 50 years, and if I have kids, I want them to always have the influence of both a mother and a father...and being spiritual but not religious means that I feel closest to all gods when I am immersed in the bounty of nature, I do not believe in a judgmental god nor in an afterlife, and I do not favor religions that believe theirs in the only true form of faith...you can believe whatever you want if it makes you a better person, just try not to be self righteous in your opinions...

Meet single man from Santa Barbara, United States. Psychologists have defined four universal personality traits. There is a fifth, one that is capricious, difficult to define, not always easy to measure. It is most often called "openness to experience." That is me.
There are many things I have not yet tried, but few that I would never try. I have a host of adventures that I have already experienced, but those are stories to share in person.
There are not enough hours in the day to enjoy all of the things that interest me. In my spare time, I am a winemaker, a chef, an athlete, and a musician. I am likely to be fascinated by the things that are special to you, as well.
I travel across the US and Europe frequently for work, but I am looking for a reason to stay close to home more often. I am looking for someone who is confident, enthusiastic, and curious, someone who is comfortable stretching their boundaries without feeling self-conscious.