Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 43 year old

Date people from United States. I'm a dad, entrepreneur, foodie, and traveler. I love golf and tennis and toes in the sand. I live well. I love to travel and play, but I must work hard to feel I've earned it. I'm into learning. Spelling matters. I want someone that's fun, but a little crazy, and can also just chill. I hate arguing over where to eat. I'm not a fan of complacency, laziness or settling. If you're going to do it, do it right, right? I'm a big fan of cooking, being healthy and being spontaneous, especially when it comes to hopping on an airplane. I work too much, but I make it to most of my sons games. I can often be found at airports just staring out the window, watching people or glued to my iPhone, iPad or MacBook. I seek love, just the rest. I'm not a party guy, but I love to eat great food at the bar. I love my children, more than my life. I've had my share of ups and downs. I smile through it all. I love my mother. I miss my father. My brother and sister are second only to my children. I want an amazing woman. One that I can be proud of and will support me and love my boys. (that's easy, they're amazing) You in?

Meet a man from United States. A good conversation over a French breakfast with a beautiful sunrise in the background and all of it shared with someone very special. This is what I might call heaven on earth. I am a kind and sincere man who values the simple things in life and is looking to find a woman who appreciates them as well.
I am an educated and thoughtful man who loves to travel, especially to beautiful places like the Swiss Alps, France & London. I don’t have to travel far however to find what I love, the Big Sur & Santa Barbara beaches provide great beauty and wonderful places to walk, hike & enjoy sunsets.
My friends are very important to me; I enjoy spending time with them over coffee or a nice dinner out, often for Indian food, which I love. If you asked them about me they would likely say that I am charming & humble, it’s so kind of them to think of me that way, they’re a great group of people. I like to think of myself as a loyal & honest friend to them, at the very least that is what I strive for.
I love getting to know people, learning about where they came from & what drives them. I am open-minded, loving and sincere. I am comfortable talking with just about anyone & hope that I can find a woman who values kindness as much as she does fun.
I'm looking for a kind, generous woman who finds happiness in simple ways. An educated woman who likes good conversation and being creative, she respects herself and what she has to offer. She can be genuine and present in a relationship, whether it's being silly or being earnest. If you are looking for a well travelled, educated man to build a strong relationship with, please contact me; I would love to hear from you.

Date someone special from United States. I'm a creative nut that spends too much time in his own head. I love to travel, near and far, and have had a very nomadic lifestyle over the past couple years. I like having a diverse group of friends and seek a diverse experience in life. Over the past few years, I closed my architectural practice in SB and traveled the country and world working with bamboo on large sculptural installations. I have also worked on projects for friends in both Thailand and Costa Rica, though have spent far more time of late in the latter.Last year I came back to the tribe in Santa Barbara to work on creative tree houses, one of which is currently published in the Summer issue of SB Seasons magazine. Since April, I'm back at a desk job for the first time in years, getting back into the swing of my profession and working with good friends with more real work than they can handle. Simply stated, I enjoy the simple life more than chasing dollars, live in the flow, trust in the journey as being the reward, and am more of an artist than a businessman. I am looking for someone to share the journey with, where ever it leads...
My perfect match is most likely someone that balances me...but off hand seems ideal if also either born overseas or with extensive travel experience, someone who comes from a good family that taught her etiquette, respect, love, and to treat people by the golden rule, and someone who sees a home in the suburbs as not the ideal dream to work towards...I'm generous with my time for others, I wish for the same in return...generally my thoughts on kids depends on who the Mom would be, as well as concerns for the planet we're passing onto them...physical attraction is very important, mental attraction is even more, passion is the most important...I don't cook all that much myself, so if she's a good cook, bonus...she must love animals (all species)...she needs to have a positive outlook and have some spunk to counter my detail oriented virgo tendencies...lastly, I want long term commitment through thick and thin, as my parents have been married for over 50 years, and if I have kids, I want them to always have the influence of both a mother and a father...and being spiritual but not religious means that I feel closest to all gods when I am immersed in the bounty of nature, I do not believe in a judgmental god nor in an afterlife, and I do not favor religions that believe theirs in the only true form of faith...you can believe whatever you want if it makes you a better person, just try not to be self righteous in your opinions...

Meet men and women from United States. Psychologists have defined four universal personality traits. There is a fifth, one that is capricious, difficult to define, not always easy to measure. It is most often called "openness to experience." That is me.
There are many things I have not yet tried, but few that I would never try. I have a host of adventures that I have already experienced, but those are stories to share in person.
There are not enough hours in the day to enjoy all of the things that interest me. In my spare time, I am a winemaker, a chef, an athlete, and a musician. I am likely to be fascinated by the things that are special to you, as well.
I travel across the US and Europe frequently for work, but I am looking for a reason to stay close to home more often. I am looking for someone who is confident, enthusiastic, and curious, someone who is comfortable stretching their boundaries without feeling self-conscious.

Date a soulmate from United States. I'm on line looking to be off line. I'm optimist (with a dose of reality thrown in). I'm a "relationship girl" and I'm looking for nothing short of love. I enjoy the simple pleasures in life and would describe myself as a country girl with a big heart I love horseback ridding, long bike rides along the water, gardening, healthy dinning, friendship, laughter and the beauty of nature. My perfect match? He's healthy, active, loyal, fun, 44-60, a light drinker who never uses drugs, is successful, financially responsible, 5"10" or taller would be nice (I'm over 5"10"in heels). He believes in the Golden Rule and has weekends free for fun/simple road trips along the coast (when in a serious relationship), he loves spending time with the women in his life. I'm looking for a man who "has my back" and I have his...a man who cares deeply for me and finds ease and true comfort in just being together.
Please respond if you are willing to start as friends and move slow. I'm looking to meet men who are on the old fashioned side and serious about finding there life partner.
p.s. Kindly...please only respond if you are kind, healthy, drug free, active and a light drinker.

Meet someone special from Santa Barbara, United States. I would like to meet someone who has great family values. I can be a very caring, loving and respectful woman to someone who's not afraid to show me the same. I have a 19 year old son whom I've a great relationship with and he's a very important part of my life. I will appreciate a man who can fully respect that. I would like to enjoy life with much positivity in mind and have a good time. I'm thankful for being in a beautiful place and being surrounded with such caring family/friends.

Date a woman from Santa Barbara, United States. My friends would describe me as reliable, intelligent, funny, talented and motivated. Life is about choices - professionally and personally, and I try to be as calculated as possible, all the while enjoying the sponteneity that life offers. I have found that the way you live your life can indirectly affect others, so we should always try to be good role models - you never know how your one small action can impact someone else. I have had many accomplishments throughout my life and can only hope that my successes, small and large, have motivated someone else to do more with their life.
I am grateful for the many opportunities that have graced me, but the one that has eluded me has been that special man that I can share my life with. In the meantime, I simply continue to improve on who I am as a person. Life is definitely a journey. Let's explore! I do not believe any of us is perfect, and do not entertain anyone that feels that way. Confidence and humbleness is attractive, not cockiness or a superiority complex.
Attributes I find necessary in a relationship: communication, honesty, loyalty, attractiveness, humor, gentleness, and empathy.
Comfort is one thing, compacency is another. Being with the right person should be comfortable, easy. I don't want to spend/waste time thinking about what you're doing or feeling, and I would hope you would not have to worry about that either. Having said that, all relationships have speed bumps - easy to get over them with the right one.
OK...let's have some fun!

Meet people from Santa Barbara, United States. I am self empowered, authentic, passionate, sensitive and extremely confident. I am very creative... Enjoy a healthy, active lifestyle (MEDITATION, Yoga and Red Tantra). I DO NOT follow the Status Quo. I AM my own guru. Love Art, Music, Sustainable Interior/ Landscape Design, Yoga, REIKI, healing with Herbs, Aromatherapy, Bach flowers and Crystals. I am really tired of this "monetary chasing game" our societies are stuck with. We all have to do our part to Stop supporting the old paradigm. I am a "Renegade of the Light" : ) If you are interested, please Wink first, so I know who U are, and after I wink back, you can reach me at romagra Thirty Nine ~where at?~ Abba Olive Love.
Would be lovely to grow my own organic veggies, be off the grid, close to Nature and have access to fresh water and local organic farms. Ideally somewhere progressive...
I seek a Tantric, Bohemian, Awakened, Compassionate, fearless, heart centered man... I seek a man who is also physically well endowed :) -physical chemistry is very important. If you watch lots of TV and get your news from mass media; smoke anything, hunt for fun or eat lots of meat, please move to the next profile. I'm not interested in older men.
It is time to WAKE UP and take responsibility and co-create New Earth, full of LOVE, HARMONY, PEACE and Self-Empowerment! Politics, Religions and Money were created to control, manipulate, promote fear and divide all. Moving from our brains into our hearts; Honoring the Sacred Feminine inside ourselves; Choosing LOVE over fear is the New Paradigm. The Time is NOW...
I believe WE ARE CO-CREATING OUR INDIVIDUAL REALITY AS WE SPEAK... I feel strongly that the end of 2012 marks an evolutionary leap in DNA and Consciousness (a Positive transformation indeed).
Love Quantum Physics and break through Science...
Scientist and researchers I like: Alexander Putney, Nassim Haramein (The Resonance Project group on faccebook), Joe Dispenza, Bruce Lipton, David Wilckok, Solara An-Ra, Barbara Marciniak, Dalai Lama, Red Ice Radio online interviews....I love to learn new info... Namaste

Date men and women from Santa Barbara, United States. Small town we live in..it's hard when you see people from this ... I have ducked in the fruit department thinking "where do I know that guy from?".....oh no...MATCH! It's fun sometimes and is a goofy distraction especially when I am supposed to be working... Meeting through friends has always been my preference but you never know? I look exactly like my photos and I thought they were cute (and so did all my friends ... who are actually helping me write this right now ... well, not ALL of them ... I have more friends than just the 2 gay guys I usually hang out with at work, who happen to be really good with words). Intrigued yet?
I'm silly, active, and a lot of fun. And, you should see me when I pile all of my curly hair on top of my head. Adorable!
Don't really want to put more info into this...just shout out and we will go from there..looking forward to meeting you(: