Date men from United States / California / Del Mar, 34 year old

Date a soulmate from Del Mar, United States. I'll make this quick and easy...I'm very fun, giving, spontaneous. I'm looking for someone that is respectful and would treat me the way they would expect to be treated. and if all goes well we both can get of this crazy site LOL

Meet single man from Del Mar, United States. My life is a series of contradictions.
I'm an optimist with pessimistic tendencies. I'm driven and am always working on something, yet never seem to accomplish anything. I love to travel, yet I'm always so happy to finally walk through my door again and sleep in my own bed after being away. I'm an artist that is more left brained than right. I like to think I have a great sense of humor in that everything that I say has some sort of hidden joke within - but when said with a straight face, few realize it. I'm usually pretty quiet and don't really talk all that much, but that's not to say that I am shy. You learn more by listening than you ever could by speaking. I spend a lot of time reading, but usually forget the stories after a few years. I love music, but very few people know of the bands that I listen to. But I'm not a hipster snob either! Just because my tastes in music (and everything else for that matter) are better than everybody else's, does that make me a snob? Crap, maybe it does.
I'm a super nice guy, and yet I think most people are intimidated by me for some reason. I have a great memory, but can only seem to remember the most useless junk. I love movies but whenever I go see one I am always ashamed at myself for how rarely I go out to them. I'm a midwest boy at heart, but have taken to big city life like a fish to water. I love driving but hate traffic. But only if somebody else is in the car. If it's just myself I have no problems waiting patiently. Deep down I'm a geek (actually not that deep truth be told), but I can hide it amazingly well. I love puzzles & games of any type - board, card or video - but don't really have anybody to play with. I love working with my hands and doing stupid little projects around the house. But without any real knowledge of what I'm doing I'm usually just 'winging it. I'm usually just 'winging it no matter what I'm doing - I'm pretty terrible at making plans. But when I DO come up with a plan, you better hold on because it's usually a work of art.
And one last contradiction for you. I haven't been in SD for very long and don't know my way around yet or know anybody here, but I really love it so far. I'm sure I will enjoy it even more with somebody to show me around.