Date men from United States / California / Bellflower, 34 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. Hey don't dismiss me just cuz I don't have a pic. For all you know I could look like brad Pitt!! Hah. But seriously I feel strange if people see me on here I like to keep things between me and me. I guess I'm a private person. But I can send you pictures if you're interested.
Anyway so I typed something and deleted it like 3 times. But this is it whatever I type I'm going with. so if it's lame sorry
So I am 34 And I consider myself to be a good person, calm, understanding. Im better one on one with people than in groups I think because I'm reserved with people until I know I can trust them. But I can connect with people on a personal level usually. I like to listen to people and hear them out. I don't dominate conversations and make things about me. and I try not to be judgmental of other people. It's their life right?
I think I have a good sense of humor. I'm able to make people laugh and I tend to find the humor in situations. I don't take everything so seriously and try not to let things in this world stress me out and I think I have that influence on people I'm close to or so I've been told.
I'd be lying if I say I LOVE to travel. Although I've been to a few places. But I do want to go to 1. Spain 2. Italy 3. Seattle. (I know random but hey). Don't get me wrong traveling is cool but if youre with the right person than going to get some frozen yogurt can be itself a great experience.
I love sports watching of course and playing its the competitive part that was ingrained in me at childhood.
In conclusion, (this is an essay right?) I decided to try this out because I could go out and meet people but I like the idea that you can filter on here. I mean at a bar you have no idea about that person except for their looks. But here you can match personalities and obviously looks too. And personality matters so much. Who knows maybe it happens and i find someone who is perfect for me and vice versa and we end up doing those stupid match.com commercials.
Ok so if you read that and you think it sucks please at least email me And tell me to change it all up. Thanks I'd appreciate it!

Meet a man from United States. This is where I'm suppose to talk about myself so you can think you know what I'm really about, right? Well, all I can say is I try to be as real as I can be everyday, and nothing written down can grasp what I'm doing or what I'm about. As of right now, I'm working and on the path of finishing up school. A few words that describe my personality are: hardworking, organized, structured, helpful, dependable, grounded, opinionated, honest, critical, affectionate with those I love, and smart. I'm pretty much a laid back person but who does have the drive ,not the means, to travel the world and learn about cultures and their history. I'm not a crazy wild guy who goes out every night, but when the opportunity comes or the moment is right I can party just as hard as the rest of them. I am a music lover and try to attend a concert as much as I can. Music is a daily part of my life and would love for someone to enjoy it with me.