Date men from United States / Arkansas / Lakeview, 45 year old

Date someone special from Arkansas, United States. Professional male with custody of his grand children for now. Once parents get it figured out I will be without them at least full time. Looking for my soul mate. Someone that has and shows respect. No untreated Bi-Polars. Been there done that don't wanna go back. Want someone that is grateful and appreciates me. I cook, clean, take care of kids, work, play. Can do it all, just prefer someone to do it with. Must appreciate the company of family.
Don't want a money grubber, who's looking for what she can get. Already did that- put her thru school, in fact did half the homework!! Do t mind someone that has children but they must have respect also.
Was a VP for a chain of Nursing Homes, ran homes, Director of Ops, etc. out of that industry due to the high stress. Had a 20 year Police career simultaneously.
Looking for someone special to spend time with. Want someone who is in it for the long haul, good times and bad. Not a runner, if you are a runner, keep running and best of luck!!