Date women from United States / Arizona / Oro Valley, 37 year old

Date someone special from Oro Valley, United States. I have been focusing solely on my career for the last couple years and have somehow allowed time to get away from me. This fall, I was on a business trip with colleagues and received a long lecture from one of them about my lack of a social life. I realized she was right....there's more to life than just work and family. I like my quiet little life but have to admit there is something missing. I don't want to wake up 10 years from now and suddenly realize I've become a tired cliche. At least I don't have cats!
I'm looking for a man who shares my values and work ethic. I am a girly girl and just cannot tolerate a man who has softer hands than me. I'm looking for a man I can respect, who doesn't have drama in his life. I appreciate the little things and miss getting butterflies each time the phone rings.