Date women from United States / Arizona / Litchfield Park, 51 year old

Date someone special from Litchfield Park, United States.
Very simply. I'm interested in meeting men who lead an active life and share my healthy lifestyle. I work hard ( retail ) and have very little free time.
I'm not in the least interested in jumping into any type of defined or exclusive relationship of anyone's perceived definition. Neither am I interested in a one night stand or casual imtimacy.... or in being anyone's ... "special girl".... whatever that's supposed to mean or entail.
If the fun of meeting and spending time together is taken away by jealousy and/or the need to control or define, or the expectation that it's exclusive and/or on going ....... And at the first hint that my actions are being followed, judged and used against me... either online and/or in the real world...
Well obviously I would not involve myself personally with such a person and don't believe any woman in her right mind would!
I decide who I choose to spend time with, or not.
I don't take kindly to anyone trying to paint me into a corner...
What on earth does anyone think that will acheive? !!! Except revulsion..