Date a soulmate from Alabama, United States. I consider myself a laid back type of person. I recently got out of a rough relationship and I am ready for change. The most important thing to me are my kids and finding someone new will be hard because of my children. They are bi-racial but they are my world so they are just as important as my relationship with anyone because they are a part of who I am. I'm not looking for the perfect guy because there is no such thing but I am looking for someone who wants to be happy and wants to make me happy.