Date women from United States / Alabama / Hamilton, 24 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. well ill start by saying i feel kinda silly doing this but im afraid im getting older and having no luck finding love myself. I thought i was in love once but in the end got screwed. i have 2 children who are my world but im looking for that special someone to spend the rest of my life with. The kids will one day be grown and i dont want to be alone. I'm looking for a man who respects women i been there done that with the kind that dont and it wasnt a happy time for me. I want a man who is not with someone else. Basically i just want to find someone i enjoy spending time with who can teach me how to be happy with life.