Date men from United States / Alabama / Titus, 33 year old

Date a man from United States. I'm easy going and sometimes love to be the center of attention. Sometimes I prefer to stand back and let someone else have the spotlight. I believe in helping others, but not if it hurts yourself. I like to get out, but have those times where just staying in is just as enjoyable. I've done a lot already in my time and have seen a lot. It doesn't hurt to sometimes just stand back and observe, but at the same time, time can be short so make the best of what you can and keep moving ahead. I sometimes can be indecisive and am looking for someone who is kind but can be head strong when needed. I've served two tours in combat and have seen the best and worst sides of life and people. You can't be afraid of a little attitude, but have to know how to let little things go. Through my work, I've worked and lived with many different kinds of people with different backgrounds and personalities. My ideal match I guess, would be someone who could adapt to anything. Must be able to laugh at situations that most would get upset about. She would have to sometimes be spontaneous but not be afraid to just lounge around and take "lazy days". Like I said, I'm looking to make a freshstart. The service put a lot of tension and stress on my first relationship, and although it didn't make it, the mistakes we both look at as learning experiences for both of us about ourselves. You learn a lot when going through things for the first time. Everything about me on the outside is a fresh start, but on the inside, I'm still me...fun loving, easy going. I try to see the humor and brighter side of everything...life can be too short. Don't be afraid to be you and except others for who they are.